Would you marry him for security? Or would you wait to explore what out there?Relationship advice.?
I would wait to see what is out there. Life might be fun when he is in his 40's but wait until he is in his 60's and you are still young... You could go with security but at some point you will be lonely and miss people your own age... Good Luck.Relationship advice.?
If I married someone for their financial security, I wouldn't be guaranteed happiness, and that means I'd have a lack of emotional security. The idea that security can be obtained by money and nice things only is a myth.
If you marry him for his money, you will probably get divorced in a few years unless you happen to discover that you two are very good together. And then, the courts will probably give you almost all his money because the courts always favor women. So, it might work out ok. Nothing I would do.
Be careful. Unfortunately, there are just some things about relationships that you have to experience the hard way. The guy in his 40's may latch on to the fact that you're young and inexperience and may try to take advantage of you. I mean, what would you be able to compare this guy to? Just because he earns alot of cash does not mean this guy will make a good husband. He could mentally abuse you and ruin your self esteem, your well being, and your life. Think carefully, be cautious. There's a reason that people frown upon relationships with such a huge age gap. Don't sell your soul, so many women do, and it's so sad
I wouldn't marry someone for security. You will end up not being happy. You are in your 20's you have such a long life ahead of you.
If you are in your early 20's, you will change as you get older. Right now you are just starting to mature. Your views and your ideas about life and happiness with change.
If he's in his 40's he's pretty set in his ways. He won't change. I think it's a pretty big age gap.
I was 18 when I met my husband. He is much older than me. He was the first man I ever was with sexually - other than kissing.
I knew when I met him I would never find someone who fit me as well as he does -- and I did not want to lose him - I married him!!!
And it's the best decision I ever made. I did not marry for money - I married for love - and that's how it should be. Regardless of age.
And never for a second do I wonder what's out there. Because I already have everything I've ever wanted.
If it was a successful lady about 20 years older than me, we both got on, really good for eachother and it was going from strength to strength our realionship, money wouldn't mean a thing, weather she's a millionaire today and bankrupt tomorrow i wouldn't walk away, id be standing with her and be going through it all with her.
Money is nothing when true love is envolved, if we both decided that we want to marry eachother then we will, but i wont be there for money purposes!!!
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if u think of marriage as once in a lifetime thing just think of this he will be 60 some u be 40 some. now that may not seem a big difference but when he 60 it will be. now if u just want to marry to see how it feels and get some money in the process congartulation. i wish u a nice wedding reception and expansive honeymoon.
Marry for love. Your 20s is still really young, and there's plenty of time to meet someone right. Otherwise, look deep inside yourself and ask if yourself if security and success are enough to settle for right now, over love and true happiness.
explore first.....I mean get to know him better. He is a guy and what do guys do??? They like you but when they get tired of you they leave you and go off with other girls. Best advice is to get to know this 40 year old guy.....and when you feel like it is time Marry him!!!
The question you have to ask yourself is ';do I love this man enough to want to be with him the rest of my life ?'; DO NOT MARRY FOR MONEY!!!!! You will be miserable and the marriage will not last. Make sure you weigh all your pros and cons before you make your final decision.
There are def. advantages to financial security but love is also important. You can learn to love somebody. But a 40 year old millionaire who is single sounds very strange to me. Check him out well before you commit.
Never marry for money, only for love.....
Please don't ruin your life.
There is somebody out there that may not have two pennies to rub together, but will give you the love that you will feel for him too.....
Love is stronger, and feels alot better than having money!!
You are young in your 20's... you still have a whole life out in front of you waiting to be lived!
Don't marry for security...especially at your age!...Marry for love and happiness.
Enjoy your life! Good luck! :)
You can not marry someone you don't love. And you can't marry someone just because you are looking for security. And you can't marry someone before exploring the world and other loves.
I would not marry him. If you just marry him for his money, you will may end up unhappy and the money would not be worth it. If you do marry him, don't sign a pre nup.
marrying for money ? do you know how unitelligent that would be? they guy is way to old for you. never settle. explore look around dont be trapped like a trophy wife, you still have your whole life to live.
If your in love marry him.
If your not in love then explore until u find the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Otherwise you will not be happy.
Never marry for money.
it depends...although i should warn you....money and luxuries will only provide temporary happiness...if you want real happiness ie love, then you should wait...
Money does not equal happiness. I'd rather be broke as a joke and be happily in love then be rich and living an unhappy life. Think about that and you will find your answer.
Marry him. Explore in secret.
explore whats out there! i like older guys ( 27 i would stop!) but 40 and loaded no ta! id rather mess around with younger fit ones haha
Murtha!!!
i will try to find out everything about his past....coz money is not everything dear !!...and age difference matters too...
if you're just interested cause he's successful then you need to keep movin.
Don't marry for money and security - it will never be enough - find someone you want to be with.
No contest!
marry the rich one tbh if ya sucure what more do you want if it aint worin leave him 卢!!
I'd explore what's out there. Chances are, if this 40 something is digging 20 somethings, he's not in it for the long run either.
He makes Millions?? go for it.. what are you waiting for!
go for the wallet there all the same but most are skint lol
you've got time to find the right guy. don't marry for money, you'll be miserable later.
yawn do to your own doctor and ask for it
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