Thursday, December 31, 2009

Relationship advice?

me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years i love her more than anything but i think she wants out of the relationship. i know she would never cheat on me because she knows id find out. but lately when we make arrangements to see each other she keeps changing the plans like this weekend we were supposed to meet on friday but she changed it to saturday then she changed it to today now she has changed it to tomorrow. were both jobless at the moment and thats putting alot of stress on me as i feel i cant provide for her. lately it just seems like she doesnt want to see me. i cant even remeber the last time we made love im 22 she is 21 this year i get so lonely and i miss her so much iv talked to her about it but all she does is apologise but when we do see each other its amasing. we cuddle alot we talk alot we spend all out time together just near each other. i dont want to loose her. please helpRelationship advice?
Basically all you need to do Is tell her what you've just told us.


Explain to her how you feel! Properly. Thats probably the best thing you can do.


to be honest. She needs to no that you want this relationship to work and you need to no if she is there meeting you half way. If she loves you she will understand.





Due to the lack of excitement in your relationship it has made you feel really insecure about the whole thing.


I think sometimes people mull over what could be happening in their other partners mind that they actually think of the worst.





Try to relax a little, Ino the feeling wen a partner turns you down for a day out. that dissopointing feeling is the worst. But you've got to remember that she could be genuinley busy.





You need to sit her down and ask her straight wat does she want. Because your never going to no if you don't ask. But some tip of advice. a woman doesnt like it wen all the blame is set on her. So try and be easy on her, because you dont want an upset girlfriend and her thinking that it's all her fault. Just be a bit considerate and think things out properly. if you get wat i mean





Good luckRelationship advice?
i think you should get a job and prove her that its good to hang out with you. try inviting her somewhere. and ask the day you ask if she's gonna cancel. if she's canceling every single week, maybe she has a family problem and she's too uncomfortable to tell you. if she's dropping you hints that she wants to break up, well then... talk to her. its better to talk... than stay silent and not know whats goin on. Hope this helps.... :)
Well its very obvious that you care alot about your girlfriend....but you need to really talk it out...and if she tries to apologise...tell her not to...and just tell her to be honest with you because you wanna make it work...an do something nice...cook a nice meal for you both...or something...then talk it through...and you never know what might happen after...(if you get my drift) haha.....but at all times...follow your heart!





well i wish you all the luck in the world! =)
Dont stress it so much. Find a steady job to keep you busy. Stressing about it will only make it harder for you. Do you think the relationship has run its course? You should discuss this with your significant other. Tell her that you love her and that you are worried of losing her. Spark the romance. Do little things for her. Do romantic things. I say GOOD LUCK to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have a break, Its good for a relationship, if you don't see each other for a few days. And if she cares for you, she will come back to you with open arms. If she doesnt let her go.You can't make her do anything she doesn't want to. Hope it works out.
i think you two should get a job... and its not that she doesnt want to be with u.. i think u guys both being jobless puts a lot of stress on you two and her... or if anything. tell her to get her *** out of the couch and get a job. haha ok hope that helps byee =)
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