ok so heres whats up.. me and my boyfriend are really close things have been great! we got together last year and have been together for 9 months, we have been best friends for 6 years and things have been really good... idk if im just paranoid or worrying for no reason but idk... lately when he calls me hes been more short, and he always seems to have to go, his life is hectic and so is mine becuz hes always got things going and so do i, but it hasnt been like this before that he always has to go so soon. another thing is that he'll say he'll call me later but then ill get a txt later saying he isnt going to be able to talk... he is the same guy ive always loved and cared about but lately he also seems like hes more ';cool'; or like a big shot or something.. ive asked him before are you ok, is everything ok? and he'll just say hes fine that nothings wrong, but idk if he really feels like that or if hes just saying it.. i feel like maybe hes board, or that maybe he even wants a break but then if he says something about it, maybe he thinks he'll lose me and that will be it.. idk... its just been really bothering me, i havent been able to sleep and i just really dont know what to do or how to handle it.. idk if i should cut time short with him back making him wanna get more time to talk to me more or miss me more or what, or if i should just deal with it and except what he says that nothing really is wrong... idk someone pleaes just help cuz im really confused and upset right now! thanks!Relationship advice.. someone please help me cause im really upset and i need some advice.. ill give 10 points?
hey Auburn tigers....well unfort,..this does sound like he has become ';complacent'; or may have had a change of feelings,..etc?? I will say if you dont pursue and he comes after you,..this will show he cares...he prob feels very safe n secure w/you,..and sometimes,.this is how people, in relationships,...get taken for granted.......but try it and good luck to you...if u have any more qqq's just mail me?Relationship advice.. someone please help me cause im really upset and i need some advice.. ill give 10 points?
Your probably reading to much into it girls often try to over analyse guys.
Sit down and talk to him tell him exactly how you feel or show him what you wrote here, try to resolve it without constantly asking him if he's ok cos this can get annoying.
If there is something up with him let him tell you in his own time don't rush him.
Hope this helps
Gd luck
just talk to him tell him how u feel and the way he have been acting made u feel sum type of way and u want him to juts be honest cuz its stressing u out .... can u help me with my question
Just try to talk to him. If nothing happens, be brave, tell your parents about it. they will help you out.
there is somethingbothering him find out what it is please it is not worth ending..best of luck god bless you
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Sounds like he just needs some space - you've been going out for a long time. Keep your distance a bit and don't be too ';available'; e.g. wait for him to call you. He probably still likes you so after a while will start to make a bit more of an effort again. Don't worry about it.
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