Relationship advice about space. can u please advice me friendly? Im genuinely seeking some understanding.?

If your crazily on love with somebody, wouldnt you want to be with them all the time. FOr me i absoloutely adore my Bf, we have been together for two years and i could spend every second of my day with him and be very happy. Why is it the some people would prefer to do other things rather than be with their lover? I guess i dont undersntad this because i would always want to be wih my boyfriend and always have put him first. Especailly when i havnt seen him for a while ( we have a long distant relationship) The first thing i want to do on a firday night is see him, but sometimes he will say oh i'll see you saturday. i often think to myself i dont get it, wouldnt he be keen to want to see me first thing? Or is it normal for guys not to be excited to see you.. I would always put him as my no. one as soon as i got free time, he is my best mate, why doesnt he for me, does this mean he loves me less and that i amy not be his best mate? i dont understand but really want too. Pls hlp respctflRelationship advice about space. can u please advice me friendly? Im genuinely seeking some understanding.?
i know EXACTLY what you mean. down to the last drop... maybe you could be like me.. i'm a dependant needy person... and i admit it. my husband couldnt suffocate me if he tried to. being away from him is almost like torture for me. if we're not sharing the same air, i can't breathe. but for him, its not like that... i dont think its because your bf doesnt love you as much as you do.... but i really dont know the answer to this because id like to know myself...Relationship advice about space. can u please advice me friendly? Im genuinely seeking some understanding.?
okay... i really don't understand why he wouldn't want to see you first thing, to be honest. It doesn't seem like he's making much of an effort on his part; and if you guys have been together for two years... i think you need to talk to him about this. Is this a recent change? Because if it ahsn't always been like this... maybe he's hitting a rough spot with you. I just got out of a long distance relationship, and when I was enfatuated with my boyfriend; the VERY first thing we did was see eachother when I came out to visit... and when I started loosing feelings for him, I would tell him ';oh well I'm actually going to spend friday night in the city... I'll see you saturday'; and things like that...


but you never know, maybe he's going through something; you really should discuss this with him, that's the only way you will really know whats going on in his head.


good luck
Being a guy I would say it doesn't mean he loves you less. You ask: ';...wouldn't you want to be with them all the time?';


Not necessarily. He might be busy. Also, some guys think a girl is too clingy and sometimes wants a little space after a while.


';Why is it the some people would prefer to do other things?';


Because people have other interests especially when just starting out. Sports, music, work, school, hobbies, whatever.


You say:


';I would always put him as my no. one as soon as I got free time...'; Even you have the problem of a lack of free time. He probably does also. I would say develop more of your own interests and focus on ideas and plans you like to do besides him. He probably would respect you more for it. It would probably shock him one day when he wants to see you and you say: ';I can't. I'm busy with something I like to do.'; Remember, guys want to be the pursuers. Let him ask you out Friday night!