me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years i love her more than anything but i think she wants out of the relationship. i know she would never cheat on me because she knows id find out. but lately when we make arrangements to see each other she keeps changing the plans like this weekend we were supposed to meet on friday but she changed it to saturday then she changed it to today now she has changed it to tomorrow. were both jobless at the moment and thats putting alot of stress on me as i feel i cant provide for her. lately it just seems like she doesnt want to see me. i cant even remeber the last time we made love im 22 she is 21 this year i get so lonely and i miss her so much iv talked to her about it but all she does is apologise but when we do see each other its amasing. we cuddle alot we talk alot we spend all out time together just near each other. i dont want to loose her. please helpRelationship advice?
if she has no job than what is she so busy doing???????? sounds like she is cheating let her go let her go or you will be more hurtRelationship advice?
It is like that old saying. '; If you love something let it go, if it comes back it is yours';, in your case don't really let go but give her some space. She will only be 21 this year. She needs to do some major growing and so do you. Make yourself less available so when you do make plans she doesn't feel she can change them. Go do stuff with your friends and focus on the job thing. Everything happens for a reason.
Face it ! Man provides...
She is feeling very unsecure ! She fears a man who can only provide sex and affection!
You revealed something worrying in your speech :';i know she would never cheat on me (because) she knows id find out. ';....
Is it the reason why she won't cheat on you ? and if you found out ?... what would you do to her ???
You (honestly speaking) are not very securizing !!!
First find a job, give her some air to breathe away from your oppressing world.. then see if she still loves you !
I think if you get a job, it would certainly makes things easier for you, she maybe busy looking for a job herself, and you should be doing the same, you have to much time on your hands.
I bet you call her a hundred times a day..You are smothering her..You have to give a woman some ';breathing room'; don't cling to tight. Relax..get a job
don't feel bad that you can't 'provide' for her. in this day and age, men are not expected to provide for women. she should get a job and provide for herself.
she may not want out maybe shes just tryin to get some space, or has things to do. If things are so good when your together I can't imagine her wanting out.
Get a job. You have too much free time on your hands and that'll get on anyone's nerves.
first get a job and than just proove yourself to her how much you love her
give her the space. it sounds like that is what she needs right now. I have been in exactly the same situation even though eventually we split but a year later, he came back into my life with a new job and a new life and he still wanted me to be part of it. We are now back together and happy. Dont take it too personally like i did. If you are not happy within yourself then how can you make someone else happy. Use this space to sort yourself out and prove that you are at least looking for a job. She must do the same herslef otherwise this relationship will be doomed forever, its called give and take. good luck
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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