Relationship advice?!?

me and my boyfriend were together for a month and a half but i had to go away for the summer. we started fighting alot and then we broke up last wednesday and it was pretty much a mutual decision because we were both tired of fighting. he wanted to get back together when summers over and im not sure but i think he still does. the only problem is i want to be with him but he still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bothers me. what should i do? theres more to the reason i dont like him talking to his ex so if you would like to know then email me. thanxRelationship advice?!?
You can email me and let me know. But in the meantime I think that you should make it clear, if you want us to be together, you can't be talking to her. It's either me or her, you choose, afterall you guys broke up for a reason.Relationship advice?!?
Well if he wants to get back with you, that's a good thing. Try spending more time with him and your relationship can strengthen. IF you dont like him talking to his ex- then Tell him in a CASUAL manner, that it bothers you that he keeps talking to her. Try to sound understanding, so it doesnt seem like you're forcing him to CUT all the TIES with her. IF he ignores you, then lol SPEAK your mind~! If he really wants to be your guy, he needs to know what's buggin you. JUST REMEMBER TO BE HONEST and TRUST EaCH other
Plain and simple, you two broke up, neither of you has to do anything for the other, you are not obligated to be faithful or anything else a couple would do. You need to let him go, perhaps at the end of summer you can give him a call, but for the time being DROP IT! You are much too young for all this drama, spend the summer having FUN and maturing.
ive been in this situation and i know its hard to think of what to do bcus it makes you think ur mabe oberecting when ur acculi not. Mabe ask to see one of there conversations and see if they flirt or what ever. if they arnt but you still dont feel okay with it just say to him how it is and give him a choice of what he wants. if a guy is really friendly with a x they obz still have feelings for each other even if they arnt saying anything or hidding it


good luck hun!
he might just want to go out with you because school is starting again and he wants to go out with a girl so he won't look bad. And that's not fair to you. It's also not fair to you that he is still talking to his ex. so i say you just move on, guys like that aren't worth you.
Tell him honestly and keep calm dont let him get to you. Just try and talk things out, aks him what you do that he doesnt like then you tell him one thing you dont like. then tell each other something you do like about the other, talk it out.
He probably just wants his cake and eat it to. If he cant be with you in the summer he shouldnt be trying to get with you in the fall. (Your his seasonal girlfriend and not his full time)


Let him go.
tell him you dont feel comforatable that he still talks to his ex...and that it really bothers you.......if he loves you he will understand...........other wise he aint worth it....
I dont think you shd


if theres doubt tlk 2 him tel him


but my honest opinion is too move on


sorry


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Hi, well fighting is never a good sign really then is it? Were you fighting over the ex or was he just getting on your nerves generally?


The time and space apart will be good for your head and you dont have to make a decision now do you 'cos you are apart for a little while anyway due to you being away.


Does it drive you crazy the idea that he may get back with his ex or talk to her about you while you arent around? - this may be more a personal thing to do with you and your ego (i say this with love and respect) than to do with your feelings for your boyfriend.


If theres more to the reason as you say...plus you guys were arguing...maybe let your brain and hear cool off a little while you are apart..sounds like a head wreck situation that you have been through.


See how you feel at end of summer and put it out of your head for now as not a problem you have now..


What do you think?