Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Relationship advice!!!?

I need relationship advice.


My girlfriend was raped in the past, and it happened to her again recently, and she recently got out of the hospital, and i dont know how i can deal with things like this hapening and guys are always touching her when I'm not around, even if i beat the **** out of other ones that have done this. There are numerous people that stalk her. I honestly love her with all my heart and I am planning to move in with her when I'm 17 because she has very large financial resources from her cousin for us to survive on, but now that you know the circumstances, I need to know wether it is a good idea to continue this relationship with all these bad things happenning to her that hurt her physicially and emotionally, and hurt me emotionally by seeing her go through emotional and physical suffering. I have been standing by her but this hurts me so much to see her like this, and no matter what I do, things like this keep happening. WHAT SHOULD I DO??Relationship advice!!!?
if you truly love her, stay with her! this is a time where your support is crucial in her life. be her protector, help her through these tough times and it'll make your bond even stronger :)Relationship advice!!!?
i can understand why you wouldnt want to leave her in a state like that but when it gets to the point of it affecting your life and hurting you, thats when you draw the line. it would be nearly impossibe to turn your back on her but in some certain extreme situations you need to put yourself first. you need to do whats healthy for you. i know that if i was you i would not be able to handle all that crap going on with her. i would get out now before it gets harder down the road.
u hve to be strong with her no matter what she needs someone to depend on soemone that can protect her someone to lean on with all of her problems if u give up on her wats left for her to live for if u love her so much u would stick with her and why dont u move some place else and if u cant tell her to drop all the guys she knows and tell her u cant protect her forever she also has to try with all her will power to protect her self i hope i helped and good luck!
whether or not to ditch the relationship... well think about this: if your ship was sinking, would you think twice about throwing on a life jacket and jumping over the rail?





here's a tip: financial resources in someone else's hands aren't resources.
ohhh wow i'm scared now =(
honey if you love her you need to stay with this girl


if things like this keep happening she needs you more than ever


you're most likely a feeling of safety and comfort for her because she can trust that you would never hurt or violate her in such a horrifying, disgusting way


ending your relationship would not only hurt you but it would hurt her...


my advice is to STAY WITH HER for her sake and yours because from what i can tell you need each other


kiss her forehead and tell her you'll do everything you can to keep her safe


(that's always cute) i'm terribly sorry about this and i hope things like this stop immediately


best of luck! =)

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