Relationship advice?

I have been with my gf for 9 months now, but I really dont know how we got this far, we argue alot, mostly her gettin mad at me and me swallowing my pride about everything and ending the fight, sex is kinda wack cuz we dont reaally do it too much, like once a week and only if i sit there and beg almost.. (not in a weird kinky way) she just says ';she doesnt feel like it today'; but tommorow ill hear the same excuse... idk.. I have asked her why she isnt into it and she never has a reason behind it except she doesnt feel like it. I have tried talkin to her about it and tried working out compromises, but they have sort of not been followed :( As far as her attitude well, shes very quick tempered, one minute she could be fine, the next shes pissed, shes the middle child in her family and is very spoiled,so everything has to be her way or shes mad. I read at what i write and i ask why do i stay with her, but i just cant break up with her, i do love her, when shes bein her happy self.Relationship advice?
I'm going to get very blunt with you , ok ?


Grow some damn balls !


She has given you every possibly sign there is that she is not happy in your relationship . And while you continue to hang around you are making yourself miserable !


She really sounds as if she has some major issues going on in her life and until she gets those issues resolved she is not going to be happy . And the person she will be with at the time will also be unhappy .


Give yourself an E for effort , you tried , but it just isn't going to work , so move on and find some one you can be happy with .


Good luckRelationship advice?
The relationship is stale, you two don't like each other anymore, and you both are expressing the desire to break up and move on. You may love each other, but remember that I love my mother and family but still don't want to spend every minute of them.





End it. It's cold, but come on. You listed a bunch of reasons why you don't want to be with her, and then on the other side, for reasons you want to stay with her, you listed ';I can't just break up with her'; and ';I love her when she isn't being a b****';





Don't tell her to pack her stuff and get out, you don't need to be harsh or anything. It's not either of your faults, things are just not going how they should be with two people who love each other.