Relationship advice?

My boyfriend feels I am constantely controlling him and making him feel bad to the point he doesn't want to talk about it. I am not intentially tring to make him feel bad, I want him to be happy and feel good. I dont understand why I feel I have to have the final say on everything. For example asking me before he can say yes to having friends around our place?Relationship advice?
It takes TWO to communicate not ONE. If he doesn't make the effort, then you will have the FINAL say. Sometimes you're just going to ask him what ';you'; did wrong and wait for his response. If he doesn't answer be repetitive until he does and let him know its important let you know how he truly feels. Assure him that you want things to work out and let him know ';WE HAVE TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY!'; Remind him why you two are together and what you two are all about. This will get him to realize you two have come a long way and that arguing isn't going to help and that supporting each other is the best thing you can do.





Bottom line, communicate, enforce it. Like I said it takes two, not one to make things work.