Sunday, December 27, 2009

Relationship advice please?

Ive been seeing this guy for the past 7 weeks, and get on extremely well, we have a laugh and just generally get on really well. He has really grown on me and i really want something to come out of it. I want more and i think he does to, he always wants to see me again after we go out and the other night i asked him should i forget about this because he was going through a rough time in his personal life i didnt want to be adding to that pressure so i asked him out straight and he just said no thats not what he wants he still wants me around but im still scared of getting hurt. Should i just let things develop or say something like where do you want this to go or should i just say nothing and let it happen. Advice would be great thanksRelationship advice please?
If he's going through a spell with his personal life, then you have to hang loose for a while. Do not pressure him. When he's ready for you to be his girlfriend he will ask. In the meantime, spend time with him and enjoy your laughs and dates. When he's not around have fun with your girlfriends, your fam, whatever. Do not make him the center of your life...no man should be a focal point, especially one that's not your boyfriend. He'll come around when he's ready, but consistently asking him if you mean anything to him or if he wants more may push him away. Someone that's supportive and there for him is someone that he'll want to keep close. :)Relationship advice please?
Just cool off for a bit and what i mean is don't say anythign to him yet, it's been a month or so..... it's still soon. Just go with the flow. Remember women always fall first (for the most part) mabey this is not the guy for you so you don't want to be adding any additional pressure.... just let it ride out for a bit more....
I think for now you might help him more if you were to be his friend and put your romantic ideas aside until he is ready for more. Tis is not easy but you may benefit greatly for just being there, hassel free.





Good luck
He likes you. Ask him about it. Say ';Where do you think this is going?'; He is going through a rough patch and when i went through one, a girlfriend really helped me.
You should talk to him and try to work it out if not than maybe it's not meant to be.
let things develop


its only been 7 weeks so wait a while...
Don't say ';Where do you want this to go?'; this question usually freaks us guys out!....





We want it to go somewhere, but we'd rather not talk about it. Just go with the flow, only been 7 weeks...
Do what you think is right for both u and your boyfriend

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