Relationship advice, can you help?

I am starting to lose trust for girls.... I'm not going gay but my first girlfriend ever in 2007 ended bad. She left me and then hooked up with my EX-bestfriend. Second girlfriend lasted a month, more of a.... well lets say i almost had sex but i F'd it up. Third girl i can't trust too much cause she got drunk this weekend and we like each other alot but she got drunk and some guy that attended her birthday party asked her for sex and she tried sneaking out of the living sayin she wanted to pee but went into his room where he lay drunk and sleepy.....


What should i do, i feel that i can't trust most girls especially cause if i continue to keep my heart contained they go farther away, either cheat or decide to like someone else..... it hurts bad. There's this girl that likes me now, it's all too hard... anyone good at puzzles?Relationship advice, can you help?
that is truly not funny i would loose trust myself yet as sorry as i am to hear that we woman go thru that to -- all i can say is if you don't try you will never know and you will end up passing out on something good for you -- i'm seeing this guy now who has had bad relationships like yourself and is backing out outta fear yet he will loose out something good and he admits to it says he doesn't want me to go yet its hard for me to understand -- we good girls end up always paying for them bad ones and vice versa for men see what i mean try that girl who u say likes you if u are interested give her a chance if u feel u stand some chance only way to know is to try good luck to you all my bestRelationship advice, can you help?
thank you .. we went with an open mind communicated last night and was very positive and will be long term we both feel it and are working at it -- do the same give yourself that chance be open and honest and remember good communication is the key good luck Report Abuse

go for the girl who likes u. if she likes u for u... then maybe shes not as bad as the other ppl! good luck!!:D





-c-a-r-y-
Woman can be tricky and sometimes just plain f**ked up. But trust me when I say there are many, many, woman who are true to their lovers and it took me a while to find one but I did. Keep looking. Broken hearts give people character and make us who we are. You'll find a good one and you'll thank yourself for not giving up.
I would assume these girls are all the same ummm category. You know: immature %26amp; untrustworthy to begin with. I'm sorry for your bad situations, but keep in mind that some people spend all of their lives looking for the 'right one'. Some find it fast, others take a bit longer. Try setting your standards higher.