Relationship advice....?

I am seeing a lad who I have had the hots for for years, he finally asked me out and we get on amazingly, we have soooooo much in common, except a couple of things, major things in my eyes.....





He loves travelling, he wants to join the navy or the raf and if not he wants to go travelling or work abroad, I am a real home bod and I dont want to leave my home town.





He also hates commitment and says he wants to get married and have kids one day but not till his late thirties which is ages away, were only 24 and 20, and I dont want to be an old mum, i wanted kids in my late 20's.





He finally said yesterday that he wants us to be boyfriend and girlfriend but doesnt want me to post it anywhere like on facebook or anything cause he doesnt like people knowing his private life. Then last night he came round and was really distant and I asked him if it was because we were a couple and he said, hes going to end up hurting me cause when he goes to the navy he wants to go as a single man....





He is coming round to talk tonight but I dont know what to say or do.... worse thing is im falling in love with him, ive just got over one heart break , i dont wanna go through that again!





Please help xxxRelationship advice....?
Too Much Too Soon





it would put me off. Me and my wonderful GF have only just discussed these things and we are over 2 years in.





You need to relax a little and see where the relationship goes first as you might find he does nothing but irritate you?





Good LuckRelationship advice....?
You both seem to want different things in life, so,let him go now...will be so much easier than later on in the relationship
It seems to me that what you need to do is stop looking for 'Mr. Right and having 2.4 children at a certain age etc. You have just got over one heart break,so why dive straight into another situation where it could happen again. Try having a break from men and see how you can enjoy life without them for a while, discover yourself.


Give yourself a break and what ever you do - do not show that you are desperate for a 'long term' relationship. If you really like this guy, give him freedom to make his own choices without feeling pressured.