Relationship Advice?

I am with someone who I am in love with and we also have a baby together. The problem is that she doesn't really do anything to help out. She doesn't work, clean, cook and she sleeps all day long. So all she does is sleep and she drinks at least a 12 pack a day which we can't afford. As a result all of the slack falls on me and it is driving me crazy. I've tried to talk to her about it numerous times but nothing seems to work. Can anyone please give me some advice?Relationship Advice?
She is probably suffering from depression , could be post natal depression which it treatable and temporary but is best if caught early on or it may get worse





She definitely needs some help - its good you are being supportive





You must INSIST she goes to see a doctor - for the sake of your family unit





Tell her it CAN'T carry on like this





Be firm but supportive and there's every chance she and you will get through this





But she MUST get help!Relationship Advice?
First of all ask her what is wrong. Make sure she know it does not matter what it is just tell me. THen if she does not do anything ask her another day, this time tell her its serious and that if she does not tell you and change that you are going to have to leave. SHe is going through her britney face,
ROFLMAO, I can totally picture this, you guys live in a trailer and your girlfriend is a fat slob who sits on the porch with a cigarette butt hanging out of the side of her mouth with a can of Colt 45 in her hand. Too funny!





Well, I guess since there's a child involved this isn't really funny. I don't know what to tell you though, she sounds like a lazy fat slob who wont change. I guess you could leave her. It sounds like you wouldn't have any problem getting full custody of the baby.
a successful relationship need to compromise and a good communications I know you love her but sometimes you have to tell her where you stand.
Why hang around?tell her you want and need a change and then move on.She is not going to change if you continue to take up her slack...She drinks because she is not happy.Talk then walk...
Are you sure she doesn't have a penis? ';She'; really sounds a bit mannish by her actions.
tell her she needs to stop or will loose u
I am in somewhat of a similar situation, well as in I'm the one doing everything in the relationship, my boyfriend has a suspended license so I'm always driving us around and he is always getting drunk every single time we go out. I'm at the point now where I'm going to leave him, after you talk to your bf/gf about a problem and nothing changes my opinion is it's time to move on. I still haven't told him I want to move on because it's going to be hard but I know I need to do it.


';There are always more fish in the sea';
I think you need to give her an ultimatum. Tell her that she needs to contribute to the household or else you can't go out with her. It's not fair to you that she makes you do everything, when all she does is laze around. If she wants something, she needs to work hard for it just like everyone else.