Me %26amp; my boyfriend have currently been dating for 4 yrs - I'm at a point in my life where I'm pretty much settled (graduated college, have a good job, got a car, and I live out on my own) my boyfriend on the other hand definitely needs to work on a few things...
Last year he had decided that we take a break so he could work on himself which I understood %26amp; supported his decision when I realized there was nothing I could do about it but then we ended up getting back together and a yr later there is still no change....
It's like he knows what he needs to do but just doesn't follow on it and I feel like I constantly have to get on him about things so things can change....
Is there something I can do or say to get him to do what he needs to do? He's told me he wants to be a better person for me but yet I'm just not seeing the changes since he never seems to have the determination and motivation to get things doneRelationship advice.....?
he's got to want to be a better person for HIMSELF, not you. thats the first step. and no matter what you say or do, he's got to WANT to first. if you cant accept him for who he is right now today, then maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship. good luck!
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