.....relationship advice....?

if ur in a r'ship where u no deep down thats its no good for you, ie the other half does what he wants and doesnt care about how it wil make u feel, constantley says he'l be home by a certain time but is always hours late with letting u know, uses al ur weaknesses and self douts about yourself to through in ur face to hurt you when having an argument, ect ect.....but why is it stil so hard to leave and why do i stil want to make it work despite al these things. blokes arnt like that they just walk away as soon as things get nasty but seems like with girls(or just me) that we'l stil want to keep trying to see if it would work-maybe cos we'r scared to be on our own or something? me and the mr have split im moving out today, things havnt been good for over the last 2weeks infact theyve been pure hel but he's seemed to carry on about his life as normal going out ect where as iv just been stuck in our house crying myself to sleep everynight. i hate him. why is it like this??.....relationship advice....?
Because you are with the wrong person when love hurts all the time the wrong people are together......relationship advice....?
Love isn't supposed to hurt. It's good that you're getting out of the relationship. The fact that you leaving hasn't upset him at all or put a kink in any of his plans means that he probably didn't care about you anyway. The best thing you can do is just get out of the relationship and give yourself time to heal. It will hurt for a while, but over time you will feel better and better. If you stay with him, then you want be able to find a man that will make you happy and treat you right. Good luck and remember time heals all wounds.
Love is stupid! you being to realize it when you grow up (N). You might feel like you love this guy but surely you cant be with someone who makes you feel like this? At the end of the day if its hurting you its not real love, if he loved you he wouldn't be treating you like this. There might be a reason he is acting like this, so if you want to try saving the relationship for the last time confront him, but make sure there's no shouting/swearingviolencee involved. Be calm and let him speak. If you feel he isn't will to compromise just get out while you can, it might hurt to do it but it will be way better for both of you in the long run. I know people always say this, but there are plenty more fish in the sea. I at times have felt that this is completely NOT true and I thought I would never be able to get over it, but in the end..you do :) good luck!
Is just that love exist no more in that relationship, or maybe its like u have choosen a wrong life partner. ask him out, tell him how u feel about ur relationship, tell him if he is still there for u, cos it seem u care but he doesn't. TRUE LOVE IS HARD TO FIND.
I asked myself that every night for nine years until we divorced.


It made me physically sick for a month when we finally separated and I was so sad, almost in a depression.


I went through relationship after relationship until I got my own head on straight and although I love my husband I am settled down with now: I know I will never experience the love I had for my first husband. Not sad anymore, just more sensible and life does go on.
Its hard, but you have to put the past behind you and start again. Its hard because you loved him and you worked things to work out. But you now have to look to the future put yourself and your needs first. Not all blokes walk away when things get nasty similarly not all girls try and make things work, we are all different.





But you just have to take things one day at a time, things will get easier and you will move on and be happy again. Good luck!
Maybe the sparkles of your relation is fading little by little letting place to anger,hatred and a feeling of repulsion to stay around the other because of the fights. fights left lil black spots on the heart each time to finally create a totally dark shadow that blinds the person from seeing love and feeling compassion and pity for the other when u cry after a fight.Its then that the just wants to leave the house and irritate you.this will reveal to be something dangerous as in the case the situation continues this way,he won't give a damn anymore and the first woman who will soothe his heart and make him smile will be to him a comfort.And if at any time he starts getting interested in her,he will widen the distance with you.so you have to stop that from happening!Are you married to him?if you are,i wouldnt advise u to leave him right away.Discussion is the best way to find a solution.Or just write him a letter venting out the deepest pains of ur heart without being aggressive but rather humble,cute.In it propose to him an open n calm discussion and that you promise to be open to what he feels too and will make an effort to find a solution on both sides.If after this nothing changes,then i think you should keep your calm and pretend nothing's affecting you.act normaly,even a smile if possible!try to show happiness..each time a fights lits up,you move out without a word and come back hours later.He will then see the difference and will realize that he doesnt have that grip on you anymore and normaly that should provoke a positive reaction or perhaps a final decision that he will start to reflect on.But thats the plan B if the first strategy doenst work.BUT YOU SHOULD NOT BE A PATHETIC BEGGER ALWAYS CRYING IN FRONT OF HIM SHOWING HOW MUCH THINGS AFFECTS YOU.THAT DOESNT MEAN U HAVE TO BE AGGRESSIVE,ARROGANT,RUDE..KEEP YOU CALM AND BE MATURE.speak calmly with self-confidence and show you are not here to enjoy a new fight.email me if you have any problem or need more help:)