Sunday, December 27, 2009

I need relationship advice?

me and my boyfriend argue non stop he just wont believe me for anything i say a while back i got caught saying stupid unessesary things on myspace and now my boyfriend doesnt trust me so everything i say is a lie please help what shall i say to him??!!I need relationship advice?
I'm not sure what it was you did on myspace, but in any case, he obviously doesn't trust you. So, if you reallly, realllllly like him and you feel like you have to make it work, then you need to work for his trust back. Whether he trusts you or not isn't exactly something he chooses. You need to show him why he should. Ask him what you can do to earn it. However, if you don't feel like he's really worth the trouble you're going to go through to earn his trust, then dump him. Find someone and start out with a clean plate. I'm assuming you won't do something to lose the new person's trust, so he won't have a reason to act this way with you. That way you can both be happy without having to deal with this problem. Remember, there are lots of other people out there. Good luck. :)I need relationship advice?
First of all I think you need to understand the process of what your boyfriend is going through. The following is some pointer you may want to see how appropriate to us as I do not know and understand the situation how things arises and caused the arguement and blah blah blah....





1. You might want to stop trying to explain yourself so that arguement wont persist allowing unnecessary harm done to your relationship.


2.You might want to understand his language of feeling within him?


3. Understanding his and your preferred system when such issues arises.


4 Allow yourself and him to have some space to cool down


5. You might want to write little note to him...or text him through sms to express your thoughts and feeling to what both you going through at the moment.


6. Be aware of the words use in your communication with him


many of times, there are incidents that we use words that lead to some consequences (Good or bad; it trigger different effect)


7. Understanding one's thoughts patterns and communication style


8. In a relationship is important that communication between two person is crucial to achieve blissfulness, mutual respect, mutal understanding, mutual TRUST, mutual objectives in the life goals both you working towards...





and more.... ....





Hope that could assist you in your issues or challenges you might find good use, peace while dealing with situation like mentioned.
The only way to solve this is to break up with him. He needs a wake up call. Why not find someone nicer?
I think if you reassure him, for instance every now and again just for no reason say, you know i am lucky to have someone like you' forgiving, understanding and trusting good looking, and turn that into a lil flirting thing, The idea with this is that he will know' hum I know she appreciates me. see men I think strives to keep up there reputations and expectations. so set them high, he has to be trusting' cause you make him feel like he is the best thing out there, because he is, hes your man' right?good luck, and hey let me know how it goes. Try it for one three days, see if theres not a diff'...
guys get jealouse really easy so hes probaly just angery that you might possiblaly have been doing something for him to be jealouse about (on myspace). Try to let him know that u don't like to argue and if u love him tell him and tell him that you're sorry cause guys don't expect that outa girls it might catch him off guard.
life is too short, if u're not happy, break up!
i think that you should tell him that you will never do something like that again even promise to delete your my space account to gain his trust back.
If he doesn't trust you than your relationship has already failed. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

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