Relationship advice!?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over two years now. We're both fairly young (18) and we have a very serious relationship, but I'm starting to question things more than usual. I had a best friend, and every time i was around him I just had this ridiculous attraction to him, and I felt guilty because it wasnt just physical, I actually liked the guy. He's not my friend anymore, because I told him how I felt, but a couple of days later I told him that I wanted to be with my boyfriend. I miss him so much, and sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I had dated him instead. I love my boyfriend, but im just wondering if anyone has any advice as to why I'm feeling so confused, and what I should do about it? I want to do the right thing, and not screw things up even more.Relationship advice!?
I think one of the most dangerous things about this type of distraction is that it becomes a focus of your attention. Because you are so focused on it you forget all the great reasons that you are with the guy that you are with now. I meet beautiful women every day and I know that they have great values if I wanted to focus on them, but I don't. Simply because I keep all the beautiful reasons I am with the woman that I am with in the forefront of my mind, and whenever I think of her these are the things that I focus on. Try it. Look at the guy you are with and remind yourself about everything that attracts you to him. Keep that positive energy within you and you will never go wrong.Relationship advice!?
You need to do some serious evaluating... Figure out who is really more important to you. Maybe you should tell your boyfriend how you feel and try to get together with your other friend. Relationships are hard, but it is never impossible to work through it. Make the decision that you think is right for you, and don't let anyone just tell you what to do. It is your relationship. You can figure things out. I really hope things work out. =)
it is human nature to be interested or curious about other ppl even if your in a relationship... my man and i have been together for quite a while as well and i still am curious and wonder what if.. and that is ok ... as long as you dont act on it you'll be alright... if you feel that the atraction towards someone else is greater than to your man then you need to sit down with both parties and explain how you feel... things will work out the way the are supposed to.. in some way... they always do..
First of all, get your head straight. Who among those two guys do you really love? Choose the one you love, not the one you're attracted to. Attraction don't last long.





And another advice, don't think of what ifs and what could have happened.
Follow your feelings!! Your happiness should come before anything or anybody!! JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART....THE HEART NEVER LIES!! Your not confused... your just wondering why your feelings are so attached to this other friend!! IT'S YOUR HEART.... JUST TRUST IT!! Good Luck!!
Move on with ur life
i agree with nice
You are doing the right thing by sticking with your choice, which is your boyfriend. However, it's not unusual to wonder what it would have been like to be with your ex best friend especially since you are so young. The fact that you have an outside interest may be an indication that at your young age you haven't got what it takes to be completely monogamous. There's nothing wrong with that, everyone has the desire to 'shop around' before they decide on one person. So essentially you have a decision to make, and that's to stick with what you already have, or to date other guys including the one you let go. If that's not an option for you then that's okay too. You'll just have to understand that it's completely normal to think about other guys while maintaining the relationship you really want. Actions speak louder than words, so while you may fantasize about one, you're staying with the other and that's just fine. ';-)
I don't know if this is what you are looking for but I'm going to give you my honest opinion: You are too young to commit yourself to one person right now. I'm not saying that you don't love your bf, I'm sure you do, but at the same time you might want to consider dating other guys. You've had this attraction to your friend, but guess what? You'll be attracted to PLENTY more as time goes on. And if you decide to stick with your BF, you are always going to wonder what you missed out on. (this could possibly lead to cheating which will just ruin your relationship anyway).





Alot of young people get caught up in puppy love, and they miss out on so many experiences because they tie themselves down so young. I'm saying this becuase I've been through it. I dated the same guy from ages 18-24 and when we broke up, it kind of felt good because I got to date other guys and LEARN about the things I do and DON'T want in a boyfriend. Now he and I are working on our relationship again, but it is 10x better because we both had time to GROW and MATURE w/o being so dependent on each other. Hope this helps.