Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Relationship advice?.. :(?

I recently met this guy at a gig and I really like him. I mean really, really like him.


The problem is, and I've had this problem before, is that I'm only 15, and he's 20. For me, that's ok but I know if I tell him it'll be over. The last guy I really liked knew how old I was so we stayed just friends but I was totally depressed over him for months.


Now I don't know what to do, we've been talking on facebook which says I'm 19 so I assume he thinks that's how old I am. I've just been trying to avoid the issue up to now but I feel guilty because if we had sex technically he'd be committing a crime and anyway I don't want to lie to him cos if he ever found out he might hate me. Then again he lives quite far away so we'll probably never be in a proper relationship, which means he probably won't find out...


My plan was to just avoid age questions but if he does ask then tell him I'm 16 and not mention anything when it's my birthday (in early July). But I don't know, please help, I know that the right thing to do is tell the truth but I don't want to never see him again :(





Thanks to anyone who bothered to read all of that, and I'd really appreciate any advice!Relationship advice?.. :(?
Well you're only 5 yrs apart which is okay cause most guys don't mind younger girls (or at least that i know the guys where i live, NYC, think lol) But tell him causally ur age like ';I know this is random and all but you know my age on facebook is wrong, im attually 16 (sixteen cause it wont really make a difference and it seems a little more mature)'; and wen u say that hope that his age is really 15 or doesnt care about ur age cause ur really sweet and nice. Oh one more thing when u say this dont let him know you like him..wait till he is used to the fact ur younger. hoped i helpedRelationship advice?.. :(?
I'll tell you from my point of view..





Tell the guy your real age .. If he likes you for you .. Then i'm sure he won't mind your age that much.. Although i believe in something which i think you should read:





I love you, since i love you i prefer being hated for who i'm then to be loved for who i ain't ..








I know this isn't much of an answer .. lol
Maybe wait until you're older, 18. Just be careful








About my question, what should ask her to, so there's not much pressure and it's a good place to go, activity, to get to know each other?


Mail me if you can!
why are older guys soo complicated! lol anyways i would tell him the truth that way(even if you do like him as more than a friend) yall could be friends.. if you lied to him and he found out he probably wouldnt ever talk to you agian! and i know you dont want that

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