What should I do?
Okay well im almost 18. senior in highschool. My boyfriend and I will be together for a year next month. We are deeply in love with each other. We have a good relationship. He trusts me and I trust him. The problem is that, My parents wont let us see each other. They do not trust me because of my previous relationship a few years ago... My father is the type of person that judges people over the phone. But my boyfriend is great and very respectful. The only time we can see each other is when I sneak out. and what are the chances of me being caught plus i hate sneaking out. How Do I prove to my father that I can be trusted again and that My boyfriend is a great guy? Oh and we do not want to break up.Relationship advice??? please help.?
Be honest.
I know that can be really difficult, but, especially when you are working to rebuild trust with a parent it is important to be forthcoming and honest if you're trying to get them on your side.
You might start by telling you dad that you met someone a while ago that you would like to introduce him to. You can, at that time, talk about your boyfriend's great qualities and then ask if you could have him over to dinner at the house so your dad can meet him and make his own impression.
I know that probably sounds really difficult, but the only way to prove to your dad that your boyfriend's a good guy is to let your dad decide that.
I also might suggest that you keep something in mind: ';If I do not lie, then there's no story to keep straight, and I cannot be 'caught' doing anything';
Good luck!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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