Relationship Advice Need Help Please?

I Have Been Dating This Lad For 3 months Now And Im Really In Love With Him...He Treats Me So Well..He is Always There Wen Im Upset And Always Treats Me With Respect..But The Only Problem Is Hes 21 and Im 14 I Want To End It Beacuse I Dont Wanna See Him Gettin Hurt In Anyway Cuz The Age Diffrent Is Just Too Much Gap...I Just Dont No How To And Wat Makes It Worse He Asked To Marry Him And gave Me A 9 Carat Ring...I Dont No What To Do Anymore I Need Advice Please Help


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wow, ok am guessing that you should say somthing like am sorry but am not ready for a commited relationship (even if you are) and say am only 14 am not ready to get married, i think we should see other people our own ageRelationship Advice Need Help Please?
First of all does he know about your age? Im sure you know the relationship between you and your boyfriend is illegal and he could get in serious trouble if it was found out that you and him have a relationship. He could be accused of rape, go to jail and end up with a criminal record. It does not matter if you consent or not. Getting married is out of question because im afraid you are too young to make such a life changing decision as you might regret it and end up being hurt.Honey, 3 months is not enough to know your man properly or to be certain of your feelings. I suggest you talk to him about the age difference and the consequences this could have on him if people found out about your age difference then take it from there. Take things slowly.
you seem like a smart girl, but for a 21 year old male to propose to a young girl of 14 seems insane, to me i think he is very insecure and maybe does care about you but you need to let it go, you even said its not what you want.


Do the right thing and what makes you happy, he needs to let go its not right, i understand you can fall in love at any age your young you need to enjoy life 1st! And him putting presure on you is not fair.
You are too young to be involved with a 21 year old, all you need to concentrate on is doing well in school. And he should know better than to be with a 14 year old plus it's against the law. You are still very young and still growing, do not be with this guy who quite frankly sounds like a perv. Find someone your own age, but again just concentrate on having fun being a teenager with people your own age.
i know every one else will tell you you have to end but why to end something good , you found some one who is good to you mayb some one in your age is not good for you and still a teenager good luck for you
He Is A Paedophile And Why Do You Type Like This And Not Like .... this..





:) anyway, yes. Get rid, it'll be hard but he is a little too old.


If you really love each other, wait untill you are older then get in touch.
tell him you're not ready for that yet, you're too young and you want to wait and as to leaving him or not...up to you but i think you should at least for an year or 2..