Relationship advice?

Ok I have been in a serious relationship with an older guy for 3 months. Since the day we met we have been inseperable and very happy together. He has met my family and I have some of his, he has mentioned me moving in with him multiple times. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with eachother. So here's the confusing part, he still has not said ';I love you';. I said it and he nicely told me that he is falling in love with me more everyday. Since then I have not said it again and have been waiting and waiting. It is so confusing because we talk about the future and he mentions weddings, honeymoons and living together. In my opinion you cannot do these things until you say ';I love you';, there are steps in relationships and he is skipping a big one. Please give me some advice!Relationship advice?
Sometimes people are unable, or unwilling to verbally express how they feel. This is particularly true in some men. It doesn't necessarily mean that he does not love you, it may simply mean that he does not have the words to express this love to you in the manner that you need. The best advice I can give you is to talk to him about it, don't just assume he will know what is wrong, if anything is wrong. So far this sounds like your perception of his feelings, which will be presumptuous unless you know how he feels, and you can't know that unless you talk to him about what he does, or doesn't do that bothers, or concerns you. After 3 months, your presumptions may be a little premature, so maybe give it some time. Up to this point, you really haven't sacrificed too much of your life to this man, so perhaps you should give him the benefit of the doubt. After all, he may have mitigating circumstances or feelings from a past situation that is causing him to be hesitant. Communication, besides physical compatibility, is probably the most important aspect of any romantic relationship. Use it.





I hope this gives you some insight, and good luck with your situation.Relationship advice?
He is showing that he loves you which is much more important than words.





I Love You.





Now, are you going to marry me or the guy that really does?





Here's some advice. Forget about the words; it is the actions that are important.
I can't see you getting married if you are fretting about the fact he hasn't said ';I love you.'; Why don't you quit ';waiting'; for it and just enjoy the time you spend with him instead? It's not confusing, he's just not that into you yet. You're sound like you two are in the infatuation stage of the relationship where everything seems perfect and you get all doey-eyed at each other, also you can't force anyone with a list of ';see? you did this!'; to say ';I love you.';
He is a typical man...Men who love the woman they are with, will say those 3 little words, when they are needed to be said. SO many times, people say them and don't mean them. When you say ';I love you'; it should be meant. He is most likely falling in love with you every day, you are together, but his whole heart isn't there yet. When it is he will say it...


Watch the movie ';the lake house'; with Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock...The movie is the true meaning of ';I love you';