Well, he knows how insecure I am about my appearance. I'm a jealous girlfriend and I just don't feel pretty enough or skinny enough for him. He flirts with really cute girls and I don't know what to do. Could this mean that he kind of wants something else? Or is it just normal and maybe I shouldn't read into it too much? What?
Please, no mean answers.Relationship advice, preferably answered by a guy.?
You posted this in the LGBT section, which means that you'll be getting the perspective of men who don't like women. If you want the opinion of straight men, post this instead in the Singles %26amp; Dating section. You'll get the answers you want that way.
And, from my own perspective, you need to tell him that his constant flirting/checking out of cute girls makes you feel bad about yourself. A lot of guys look at other women without really realising how it affects their loved ones, and he's not a mind reader. You should bring up to him just how it makes you feel. If he's a good boyfriend, he'll try to not be such a flirt. If he's not, he'll ignore you.Relationship advice, preferably answered by a guy.?
You know what, all he's trying to do is look cool for you. That's the best way young and immature men do this. they want the attention so they will do anything to intensify the situation since he now knows that, that's the best way to get closer with one another. He may be trying to test you. that just may be his personality, not sure but try to play cool, and maybe he'll stop. Or ask you why have you been acting different lately since you don't seem jealous, he may think that you lost interest in him.
Well, I am straight, always have been...notwithstanding that, I agree with Tsun. The key to any good relationship will be built on COMMUNICATION...if he won't talk and share feelings and thoughts, find someone else. You HAVE to share your discomfort with him about eyeing pretty girls, or start pointing them out to him. That will show him you are secure in your own being. If he is with you, and wants you, you have no body issues that will affect your relationship with him, if you think there are, ASK him. COMMUNICATE!!
To be honest, you will never be able to love or be loved by anyone unless you start loving yourself first. Your worried if your pretty or skinny enough?? In love-- that does NOT MATTER! Healthy is beauty, not stick and bones!
As far for him flirting, most guys do. Depending how how far he takes the flirting.
girl he is a guy he will flirt with anything he finds attractive trust me but that doesnt mean hes gonna leave you,youll almost started a family and i'm sure he loves you to death! Just like you prob stare at hot guys just because thats human nature but it doesnt mean you'de run off and cheat on him right?Well atleast I hope not
-ben %26lt;3 u
Wrong section but I'll answer anyway =p
It's human nature to flirt, I'm sure you do as well. He's with you for a reason, because he loves you. If he starts pulling away and such, then I'd see a problem. Good luck.
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