Thursday, December 31, 2009

Relationship Advice. Confused. Please read! Guys answer?

today I was gonna( but didn't) say I love you and today my BF well...dumped me. My first break-up. Well there was a conflict, that was unavoidable. In the end it caused less time for us to hang out and he feels guilty about it, like he made this conflict between me and my dad and he didn't but he feels that way fine. well that's a little back round. so he dumped me and says we can still be friends, ( they all say that) how to go about that without awkwardness and well probably go out again and he still likes me, but he says it's not the right time now. and I could probably get a guy faster then he could get a girl. I still like him very much and I don't want to pressure him or make him feel bad. How do I avoid awkwardness, be friends, and how do later get back together work? He felt, guilty had no reason too, but i can't control that. He just said he couldn't handle the unavoidable circumstances. Could this be sincere or a plain excuse to dump me, for now I'll give him some space. does trying to make me feel better help. -sigh-


He was my first kiss, I was the first girl he said I love you to, so there is future hope right?Relationship Advice. Confused. Please read! Guys answer?
Look honestly guys can sometimes be ******* while trying to seem nice, I don't know this guy but he seems to be using an excuse to brake up with you, if he really wanted to be with you it would not matter how uncomfortable he feels or how guilty he feels he would still be with you no matter what, and usually when guys brake up with some one but try to keep their hopes up for a future relationship that's because he probably already has someone new and is not sure if it'll work or not so he wants to keep you as a back up, plan B if you will, I think you should move on and see if I was right you really deserve to have someones full and undivided attention, and you are right you will be able to get a guy that quick, regardless of you're exes circumstancesRelationship Advice. Confused. Please read! Guys answer?
Well what I would do is try to become very good friends with him. Figure out what he likes and dislikes. By him a great birthday present or give him a friendly but romantic valentines day gift. Soon, when the time is right, you strike! (not literally) You tell him that you still kinda like him. If your lucky, he may see how wonderful and beautiful he thought you were and want to get back with you.
Give him a little while to figure things out. Try to hang out with him as much as possible. It might be a bit awkward at first but it shouldn't be. Pressure is what you want to stay away from with guys, it will push them away.
sounds like hes seeing someone else **** him in move on
there is alwaysfuture hope. him being your first kiss and everything that is always a very hard break up and he needs to realize that at yalls age, no ones dad is going to like him lol he is taking their daughter from them. just tell him how you feel and that no matter who he is with, the dad situation is going to be there. he just needs to gain his trust. but let him know you are willing to work though it and attempt to be his friend if thats what he wants. it will all work out keep your chin up! need any more advice let me know ill help you work through it

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