Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Relationship advice ?

I recently met a girl, whom we have a lot in common and spent unbelievable amount of time together for 4-5 days, now she told me she is engaged and about to get married with-in few months but not sure, and all sudden she has stopped calling me or replying(normally she calls me everyday/night) because of her finance is back from work. Okay i am left in middle, what shall i do ?Relationship advice ?
i think you should not take it seriously about her because in the first place, she already told you that she is getting married. maybe when her fiance is away, she just wanted to have someone fill him from absence. maybe she had good times with you but she only regarded you as a FRIEND who can give her comfort especially when she is ALONE. so don't feel bad about it and start finding someone who is available and is the same interests as you are. peace manRelationship advice ?
You got the short end of the stick. I'm sorry kiddo, but I wouldn't pursue it anymore and just go out and try to find someone new.
sounds like she loves u and is fighting ur love, u should take and see her and tell her that and how u feel, tell her that its a good thing that u both caught it in time and start romancing her.
She is engaged therefore you should back away. You said you just met her and spent 4-5 days together... I doubt that is enough for her to leave the man she is about to marry. Sorry to say this but she is not calling or replying to you because she is not interested... plain and simple... take a hint. Let her be... and you... move on!
You aren't in the middle of anything. She stopped calling therefore your purpose has been fulfilled in her life. If she needs a hook up or quickie during the marriage she will call you. Don't become a stalker with her and just accept the role you had in her life as a time filler while the fiance was away.
you have no relationship, it sounds like she was having a ';last fling'; before she gets married! (not that her marriage is going to last!, but thats another question)


You can do nothing but realize its over.
Go to her. Give it your best shot. You obviously feel strongly for her and she might feel it too. She might be scared of how she feels since she is engaged. She might be staying away to see if she gets over you. The thing is, you are still both single and able to change things. If she has feelings for you then she will be mistreating her fiance by marrying him. Maybe she needs time to think about things. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you and it was just a close friendship, in which case, you need to find another. Sorry luv. Give it a try.

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