Relationship advice?

Hi


i have a bit of a dilema, any advice would be great.





I have been with my guy for 2 years and are to marry next year. I do have feelings for him but im not sure how strong they are lateley. Recently my ex, from a few years ago who remained a friend, told me that he regrets us splitting up. Basically we split because we were too young. He was my first love and my feelings have never vanished, although over the years i pushed them to the back of my head. Now he has said this i just dont know what to do, i have never stopped loving him. since his confession we have spoke and he as said that he has never stopped thinking about me, he regrets the split and would love us to be together. However i dont know how strong his feelings are and if he really does want us to be together.





What should i do?Relationship advice?
you already have your answer so you really dont need us to tell you. You are suppose to marry your soulmate and I really dont think the new guy is. You are still in love with your ex and by marrying the other guy wouldn't be fair to him and I know it will hurt but your talking about a life time hear. You have to listen to your heart, it wont fail you.Relationship advice?
YOu should...remember why you split. He sees you happy, and now wants to confuse you.
It doesn't sound like you are ready for marriage.





But I would takek my finance and get premarriatial counseling first and tell the ex to leave you alone for a while.





But don't marry the guy until you have the counseling. Either way no offense but I hope your finace gets the gal God attends for him instead of just marrying and same with you.
First off, do not get married. You are not ready. If one ever has any doubts about getting married, don't do it. It just hurts everyone in the long run.





Second, heck my feelings for my first love never vanished completely either, but that was 20 years ago. It doesn't mean I'm still in love with him, it just means that as my first love he will always have a special place in my heart.





You need to step back from both of them and take a deep breath. Then decide how you really feel. However, don't expect either to sit there and wait while you make up your mind.
You have already been cheating behind your fiance's back by talking to this other guy about love. So don't think that by getting married to the new guy your feelings for the first guy are going to go away. You are going to end up cheating and that will hurt lots of people.


You need to be firm and strong, weigh in the situation and make a definite decision before the preparations for the wedding start. The new guy might spend lots of money on the arrangements and plan his life around it and then it might be too late to tell him. Better to make your decison right now. But nobody can tell you what that decision should be.