well im a sophomore in high school, and there is this freshman girl, and i like her, but i really dont know how to talk to her. this really doesnt happen that often. i have a whole lot in common with her, and i want to start somewhat of a relationship. But i do not know how to go about doing this. If anyone has any advice that would make me sooooo happy
thxRelationship advice...?
bump into her in the hall and compliment her on something, she will probably be thrilled cuz you're older and maybe a little shy. try to talk to her without any of your friends nearby cuz that would be intimidating for her. just in case she watches and notices you (lol sound creepy but we all do it) try not to be seen with hot girls, cuz then she may forget about you thinking you already have someone.
give her your info and ask for hersRelationship advice...?
Be Your Real Self
Spending the initial months acting as someone your not is a complete waste of time, as in reality your partner won't know the real you. At the beginning of your relationship you should take it slowly. One of the fastest ways to kill a budding relationship is to jump into bed too soon or live like you're attached at the hip. No matter how crazy you are about each other, try not to spend every waking minute together. Take some timeout to spend with your friends and yourself. This will create some mystery and will help to keep your feet on the ground.
Maintain a friendship
Ultimately, friendship is the foundation of any happy, long-term relationship. Friendship will help to get you over the bumps in the road. Usually once we have been around another person for awhile we tend to take them for granted and nitpick their behavior. Don't fall into that trap. Even when you disagree, you need to treat your partner the same respect you'd show any other close friend.
well its best to start out with a good conversation with her, then after awhile if things tend to loosen up and she starts feeling comfortable being around you and such ask her to a small hang out over the weekend or go catch a movie.. you know the basic things
and from that point on you can ask her from there
hope this helps
good luck to you ~
football season is here, take her to a game or something. It seems like you need to spend more time with her and maybe drop a few hints. And when you think she is getting the point, just ask her. It's better than waiting for her to pick up the hints. Just tell her how you feel. The worst she could possibly say is no
Be calm and talkative and show her that your interested by asking for her number that's a start and while you two are conversing then you can ask her what types of things she likes, then you could invite her for a bite out.
You should go and talk to her, become friends, and eventually if she feels the same why about you, you should ask her out. She might be shy and want you to ask. You never know unless you try! Good luck!
Talk to her. Shes younger and she will probably think its cool that her first year of high school she already has an OLDER guy liking her. Dont be afraid to open up, girls are easy to talk to. Good luck :)
day 1: walk up towards her, not directly at her , and nonchalantly complement her on something. that's a start.
go get her
go see a doctor.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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