Relationship advice, preferable female answers!!?

Im with my boyfriend 1 year and 10 months, we get on well, we tell eachother we love eachother all the time. The only thing is that I think we dont see enough of eachother. We will meet MAYBE one night during the week for about 2 hours, he wont stay over with me because of work and his mam wont let us stay in the same bed even though we are both 20 or i would stay in his house but i would feel awkward in a different room. If we meet at weekend im always working saturdays so we can never go shopping together for a day out. We could go cinema friday night maybe. Or maybe saturday night. Thats it, he wont realy often stay over even on weekends.. At the end of oct he wil be staying away mon to fri for college which i understand he couldnt travel anyway and im glad hes doing something in college but then he told me the other day that on friday nights when he comes home hes going to be playing darts because he is on the team.. So what i get just a few hours on a sat night with him?? What if i wanna go out with my friends on a sat night? I mean i know reading back on what ive said its like he doesnt wanna be with me but he swears im the one and he is trustworthy and i do believe hes madly in love with me but i just dont get this. I said to him all you have to do midweek is to get up just 10 mins before normal time to go home and then go to work but he said he just likes time on his own... please som1 help coz when i mention this he says im mean for doubting our relationship when we are meant for eachother ..Relationship advice, preferable female answers!!?
This sounds rather a strange relationship, if you only see each other once a week for about 2 hours. People in love usually want to see each other a lot more than that. It's odd that he won't even stay over at weekends, when he doesn't have work. I'm wondering if you guys are really in love at all or whether the whole relationship is more force of habit than anything else. You see, it's not hopeful that he says he's going to be playing darts on the Friday nights he's home from college - or that you object to the thought of seeing him Saturday nights, on the grounds that you might want to go out with your friends then. Neither of you, in fact, seems to want to put the other one first. Maybe you and he need to do some honest talking about where this is going - or even if it's going anywhere at all. Take care - and I'm sorry if this isn't what you hoped to hear.