Relationship advice?

me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years i love her more than anything but i think she wants out of the relationship. i know she would never cheat on me because she knows id find out. but lately when we make arrangements to see each other she keeps changing the plans like this weekend we were supposed to meet on friday but she changed it to saturday then she changed it to today now she has changed it to tomorrow. were both jobless at the moment and thats putting alot of stress on me as i feel i cant provide for her. lately it just seems like she doesnt want to see me. i cant even remeber the last time we made love im 22 she is 21 this year i get so lonely and i miss her so much iv talked to her about it but all she does is apologise but when we do see each other its amasing. we cuddle alot we talk alot we spend all out time together just near each other. i dont want to loose her. please helpRelationship advice?
Go into detail about how you're hurting. Ask her what's wrong. And when she answers, let her answer. Do not interrupt. If it still sounds as though she wants out. Ask if there's something you can do. If she still wants to leave, then let her. You can't make it work if she doesn't want it to. It takes two to have a successful relationship and if one isn't for it, then it won't work. Just give it some time. Become friends with her and let her know you'll always be there. Hope this helps. :0)





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Ask her what is going on with her...


and find out why exactly she is changing her plans with you.


Is she looking for a job? Maybe wanting to spend sometime with friends.


If she wanted out, she would find a way out.


Maybe by doing things to get you to break up with her.


Starting dumb arguments.. is a big one.


Don't worry too much.


Just talk to her and see what's up.
aww...you 2 seem sooo in luurrve. Its cute. Its prob not having a job getting to her or erm...is she tired of the relationship not moving forward? maybe you should commit to her...i fits the right time. dunno. she prob wanting more. talk to her. tell her she needs to tell you if anything is bothering her. ask her if anything is up. ask her if she is happy. talk it through throughly.
ok it sounds like she loves u very much but is scared of hurting you. she feels that shes letting u down cuz she doesn't want to get married and have kids so the more she stays away from u the less she will be hurting u. but when u see each other she's showing you what her heart really feels. its that classic ';do u listen to your heart or your head?';. She is blaming herself cuz she feels she is hurting u. hope that helps
she doesnt ever want to get married.. to anyone... ? how was her child life like.. because if it wasnt so good this may be the cause... talk to her more about it and when she says simple answers like im sorry or its nothing.. DONT BELEIVE IT! girls are Way more complex then that.. when we say everythings ok and we are sorry..then its not ok.. we need to talk about it in circles untill some how you guys break threw to the real problem... because if you are happy when you see her .. and every things dandy.. then she turns around and is busy and cant or doesnt folow threw.. then either...


1. shes afraid...


2. she wants to get out . but when she sees you she knows she really doesnt..


3. shes just busy.. we are busy sometimes..


4. shes sending you a message ...


5. unknown ...


but the best thing to do is say : i dont knwo whats going on but i feel like there is somethink wrong.. and i dont understand why everythings great in person, but getting to the person part is so hard.. and if you really love her then ask her why she doesnt want to get married.. tell her you will never hurt her ever.. and then say if you want to break up we can but its your call because i love you more then life and i want to be with you till the sun is blue.. or something lol.. ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years.. ive had moments like this.. but we always make it threw and its always worth it ..! good luck!