I am currently with a wonderful guy. Hes hot, 3 years older than me (and i am 17), has money, and is the sweetest guy ever. I love him and just love being around him. Together for 5 months now. He is crazy about me. We have sex on average 2-3 times a week
Then there is my ex, who keeps on getting in the picture. On and off for about 2 years, hes not as good looking, doesnt have a lo of money, and is my age. But he was my first love, or so i think. Every time i am with this other guy, he pops into my head, now all the time, but sometimes. He has treated me better than anybody. He loved making me happy and pleasing me. He really treated me like a princess. I lost my virginity to him and we have has sex about 60 times in 2 years. We were always together. We even planed out our future together. We broke up because i get bored yet i always come back.
Whats my deal?? Who do i really love? What does it mean? Who should i be with? PLEASE anwser all these question. THANK YOU!!!!! :)RELATiONSHIP ADViCE.......?
You're probably realizing that money and good looks don't mean squat in a solid, long-lasting relationship. They're nice bonuses, sure. But they are not the formula you need for the relationship to stand the test of time. And sex? That's only a temporary high that fades once the clothes are back on.
My fiance and I have been together for 6 years, with money and without. He's not the hottest guy on the planet but in my eyes, he's amazing inside and out. Kind, generous, loving, and treats me like a queen. Whether he earns 50k or 25k is irrelevant. He's there for me and committed to our relationship.
You need to decide whether you want temporary excitement with the hot guy with money or long-term fulfillment with a guy who has less but treats you like a princess. Think of the emotional satisfaction, not the physical.RELATiONSHIP ADViCE.......?
Your deal is that you are 17. Please don't get pregnant or married for another 10 years.
The solution to your problem is easy. Tell your ex that your sleeping with the older guy, probably won't have to worry about going back to him.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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