Thursday, December 31, 2009

Relationship Advice Please

Recently my Ex broke up with me and I have been seeing my boss. I'm 18, he is 27 and a heroin addict in recovery. He is so nice and kinda has the kurt cobain look/personality which I really like in guys... Anyways, I'm afraid that I am just with him to help me get over my ex, but it doesent feel like that. He made the first move, by leaning in to kiss me last night; but I cannot deny it, I wanted him to kiss me. Anyways, my parents would KILL me if they found out I was seeing him.. and I'm scared that he will influence me in a bad way or get me in trouble with the law..but he is so HOT and there is just something about an older guy that is so sexy. what should I do?!Relationship Advice Please
you shouldn't date someone just because you think they are attractive and keep in mine he's in recovery.. any one who is going through that isn't right in their head just yet and could relapse.. you wouldn't want him influencing you.. maybe you should leave it alone for now.. Relationship Advice Please
he sounds like a re-boung guy


i think you've identified that





also, given your age difference *yikes, you are barely legal*


and his history with drug abuse, i would cut this one


it's not fair to anyone


seriously





this may not be what you want to hear, but it has trouble written all over it
Leave this guy alone. He is battling a serious demon. He needs a friend, not a lover. But he needs to help himself first. You don't have to go back to your BF, but this new guy/boss, needs some space. Then he will be good for you in the future. Probably not the answer you were looking for, sorry.
Ok, take a deep breath, imagine it is 2 years from now...where will you be with this guy. Possiblities; 1. An unweb mother 2. In jail 3. Very unhappy 4. In rehab. Unless you have given up on your life and yourself run from this guy now. Hot or not addicts are baddd news.
DON'T go out with this guy. For one thing it will cause problems with your parents, he is likely a rebound guy, he is too old for you, has a drug problem AND he is your boss.
eeeeeeeewwwwww hes your boss for Pete's sake plus hes nine years older then you if u do stick with him your gonna be miserable abused


and your parents wont trust you find a new job and ditch him
ya he might influence u in bad way


so get over him u r just 18 and u will find plenty of hotter guys and besides he is 27 too much age difference according to me
Sounds like a rebound guy. Even he probably knows it. Commit to telling your parents and ditch the dude.
Fire himl
Way more fish in the sea. He was just there at the right time. Don't let him bring you down.
it depends if he kissed u did u feel anything but i would break up with him he is so much older and could just be using u.
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