Relationship advice...sort of! I'd appreciate help and advice :)?

Okay basic stuff


Im 16


Have not had a boyfriend in 2 years


Im female!


I like all the flirting stuff


Im very much interested in boys


I have tried some stuff (first base)


Have not had sex.





Right so basically I'm desperate for a boyfriend (i sound like a 10 year old i know but please just take me seriously), my group of girl friends are boring me and we are always arguing with each other and im just fed up. I cant tell them my problems, i just feel like i cant trust them and little things like that. So that's another reason why i want a boyfriend. so i can tell him everything.


There are things stopping me back though. I feel extremely self body conscious. I'm a size 12 and have curves, boobs and a bum but im not so keen on my curves. In fact i hate them.


I don't want everyone to say learn to love your body because you don't know how much i have tried. Ive done every diet in the book. Im even on weight loss pills to get down to s smaller size. i do exercise.





But i want you lot to tell me about being around males. i Get nervous and shy and tame...But im really not. Its just when it actually gets down to the point i get shy and almost curl into a ball. :/





Boys do find me attractive, and i am always texting someone or what ever but when it comes down to the meeting alone part i just finnish it. I NEED to stop this and get more confident.





Thanks for helping me xxRelationship advice...sort of! I'd appreciate help and advice :)?
Instead of trying to change you're body (Which i know most people want to just get a bit smaller). I'm the same age as you and a size 10/12! I did hate my curves, but i've realised i'm learning to love them because my boyfriend does!





He says he hates girls without a womanly figure. We are ment to look like this! It's how women should look, and you shouldn't try to change yourself to get a guy when there is nothing wrong with you in the first place! Any guy that doesn't like you how you are, obviously isn't right for you!





Try to consentrate on liking how you look because if you are down because you want a smaller frame.. How are you going to have confidence to talk to guys if you don't have confidence in yourself?





I have always found it really easy to talk to guys, but i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. I was in a relationship before and was best friends with my present boyfriend... He made a move and i broke up with the old one and have been with him ever since!





You need to just brake through your confidence barrier. I know how you feel about your friends, i've found that girls i speak to, that aren't best friends, i can talk to about things. But yeah a boyfriend does help!





If you see someone you think could be a good guy, casualy talk to them, flirt a little but leave it to him to ask you out, if he seems keen but doesn't... Drop subtle hints, but don't over do anything or seem to keen. Leave it to them... Stay just that bit away, to keep them keen.





If you want anyone to talk to... my MSN is xx_cat_huni_xxx@hotmail.co.uk





Might help if you need someone out of the picture to talk to.





Hope i'm helpful!Relationship advice...sort of! I'd appreciate help and advice :)?
I met my first b/f when I was 16, it was nice but it was obviously never going to last. I was really heartbroken. I wish I waited..seriously there is no rush into dating, the longer you wait the better and the better guy you will meer.
guys are just as body conscience as girls are trust me, he wont even be thinking anything about it, he will be worried about his own body trust me. Don't do anything you could regret though!
you almost sound like me at your age... I had a bf for all of 2 weeks my freshman year but nothing serious since a cuter more popular guy had said he wasn't good enough... I didn't get another bf until I was 17 about to turn 18 though there were several guys I had crushes on I didn't focus on it... I had alot of guy friends though... even most of my crushes I ended up becoming friends with... I was a size 11-13 through most of high school and it didn't hold me back... I noticed that alot of guys flirted with me but I was insecure about it because at first I thought curves equaled fat





you just have to get your confidence back and try making more guy friends and then you'll have better luck finding a boyfriend