Relationship Advice?

Ive been with my bf for almost 8 months now and things are going well apart from a few little things. He never seems to kiss me when we are out (im not wanting a full on snog im asking for a peck on the cheek). I kiss him and hes fine with it but he never seems to make the first move to kiss me. I asked him about it and he said ';im not a big kissing person i prefer to hold your hand or put my arm aroung you';. And he doesnt seem to kiss very much when we are alone either, i asked him about that also and he said ';im just not the type of person who needs to be all over someone';. He wasnt saying that i was but i dont understand. Doesnt he want to kiss me? I ask him and he just gives me these confusing answers like i put above. What does it mean? Please help me. I feel like he doesnt love me? I thought all guys would love to make out most of the time? What do you think? (were both 21)





Thanks





Scarlet





It hurts to think he doesnt love me anymore, or that he never actually has!Relationship Advice?
jus because he dont wanna kiss you doesn't mean he don tlove u, somepeople jus dont trust people 4 instance, i would nt kiss my boyfriend because i dont kno wat he doe, sexually r wat he have doneRelationship Advice?
holy cow!





settle down girl....he probably does love you ...





guys don't wanna make out all the time...





you might be a bad kisser though...
Well , I understand well why you worried. Most guys will want to make out even before they know your name.





But well maybe he has some different believes about kissing. No one can tell whether he's loving you or not through this act. Try to find out more about it, but in the mean time, don't push him into it. You don't have to force him to kiss you. You can try to initiate kisses with him. Slowly.. like a peck on the face, or maybe even lips. See how he responds before u get to the conclusion.





Kissing is just a part of relationship, not all. Don't be too hard on yourself or your bf bout it. All the best.
Some people are just that way. You have a couple of choices here.





1. Love him for who he is. No nagging or anything, because that will eventually drive him away.





2. Break up and find someone who kisses all the time.





Understand, there are guys who kiss their women all the time, but cheat on their women as well. So just because someone kisses their woman a lot doesn't mean they love their woman.





I think your boyfriend was very clear on why he doesn't kiss a whole lot. He said he's not that way. There's nothing confusing about it at all. I think you probably just don't like the fact that he's not much of a kisser.





And no, most guys aren't overly sexed. They do like to do other things besides make out. Making out isn't a sign of love, anyway. Many guys who make out with their woman also make out with other women.





Could be your boyfriend wants to wait until he's married for that, and if so, he should be commended. Maybe it's time to start talking about marriage.
i dont necessarily think he doesnt love you anymore. it sounds more like, maybe the touching, kissing and cuddling isnt something he is used to. you are maybe not an overly affectionate person, and he isnt used to what you are used to. i think when you guys are alone that you should tell him you know it makes me feel like you dont love me, how can we fix this? he is probably just nervous and doesnt know what the right answer to give is.
That's not true. Not all guys like to make out constantly with the person they're with. I've dated several guys who were like that and after dating guys who did like to literally suck your face off while ';kissing'; me I realized that may be it wasn't so bad with guys who weren't into kissing that much. Listen what I'm trying to say is that believe it or not there are some guys out there who would rather enjoy the little things in a relationship rather than be liplocked all the time. These little things are what they seem to remember most such as holding you close, feeling your warmth and the beat of your heart lets him know just how lucky he is. Holding your hand knowing that you are there gives him a sense of security so to speak. Grant it a kiss is some thing desired, but to me there is just so much more to a relationship. So enjoy each kiss and every moment you to have together.