been going out with a guy for 8 months now. 2 months he went away and i found out he slept in a bed with a girl friend( bitta brody audrina thing). we went thru bit of trouble, feeling like we drifted a bit. everything got ok few weeks ok and we were doin great. at a ball he asked me to, this girl wouldnt talk to me, look at me or anything. now i found out that she likes him and that now he likes her too. we havnt spoke about it since i found out. i dont know how to feel about the whole thing. do i have the right to be really mad about it or shud i just let it go? wat u think?Relationship advice!?
Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.
Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?
Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.
Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.
If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.
Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.
Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.
If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.Relationship advice!?
Ofcourse you have all reasons to be mad about it. Confront your guy and tell him clearly that you wont be tolerating a parallel relationship behind your back. He has to either chose to be loyal or see the door.
Dont let it go...it would not only harm your relationship, but also wear you out mentally and physically.
Talk to him a mean you will be hurt but at least you know his feelings yes you do have the right to be mad but you also have the need to move on to life is about lessons and this just mite be one of yours
you have the right to be angry,but control your anger be positive,theres alot of men there better..talk to him why did she done that.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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