Relationship advice!!?

Advice plz...I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 yrs now...we are not married but do have 1 child together..lately we have really been having our share of problems...her having jeously issues since i have lost weight and the constant fighting about money..i really dont know what to do anymore..she always trys to find something to fight about. She doesnt do much other then work and thats it..i work as well and have to come home and clean cook and she doesnt appericate it at all...just complains and complains. I have threaten to leave on many occasions because she hits me in front of our 2 yr old and i do not like that at all..but she knows im not going anywhere because i have a daugther and shes my life. PLZ HELP!!Relationship advice!!?
Do you think it's ok for you child to witness your wife slap you? Trust me, you are not doing you daughter any favors by tolerating your lazy wife. Do you want your daughter to grow up like her? Hire some help. If you can't afford it, tell you wife you'll split the chores.


The most important thing here is your child. Just keep asking yourself if you want her to be the type of wife you're married to.Relationship advice!!?
I was trying to figure out what to say to you when I got to the part where you say ';she hits me in front of our 2 yr old';.





LEAVE HER and try to get custody of your child. She's ABUSIVE. If she doesn't have the self control needed not to hit you, she may hit the child at some point, too. Do you want to have that on your conscience?





If you were a woman in our society it might be easier for you, but it's still no different.
Obviously in the past 7 years this is not the first time hitting has happened. We are only getting 1 side of the story. The only real answer is this is the result of shacking up, playing house. If you are not getting married, get out. Stop making babies that have to live with step fathers, and step mothers.


Children of unwed parents have more issues than those that come from a healthy home. If you can't give a child a healthy home, don't have children.
leave. you deserve better than that. you should not have to be the only one pulling the weight around there. she needs help. that is not how you want your child to think is right. if you don't want to leave then you guys get some help. then if it doesn't get better then you should find someone that is going to love you for you and not treat you like that.
Why is she jealous of you losing weight?





Her hitting you is domestic violence. This act is against the law %26amp; you can report her for this. Have you considered you raising your daughter by yourself? Your daughter should never be witnessing your girlfriend's abuse.
You should take your daughter and LEAVE. This woman is physically abusing YOU, how do you know what she does to the baby when you aren't there????





Get a lawyer %26amp; file for sole custody. It doesn't sound like she cares about the child at all. And try to get a restraining order against her, so she can't get near you to hit you!!
This is unacceptable, get rid of her and take it to court. Tell the truth that she's abusive and it might endanger your child .
If she hits you, that is abuse. You need to leave. Yes, you do need to maintain the relationship with your daughter. But by remaining with her mother, you are teaching your daughter that it is okay for her to abuse men. Is this the message you want to give her? No, of course not. So it is time for you to leave.
I think you better sit with her and really talk on what's going on with her. Feeling insecure about how you look now can be a bit annoyed because she loves you and she doesn't want any one to look at you, but what she's doing is a bit far. If your baby is 2 years old now, can you tell if your girlfriend already been on this ';post par-tum'; after the birth of your baby??Do you even know what this depression is?? it's not some kind of illness but all the women that went through birth will have this moment, some will show up a few months after the birth of the child, some will show a bit later,it all depend. It did me when my first daughter was almost a year old. I thought I was just upset and tired but when I noticed myself I felt hate towards my husband, felt angry that he can't do better. This kind of depression will not harm no one just our self esteem, feeling angry and so much more, it was cost of luck of hormones and the pain that we go through labor. So if you can ask someone or the doctor what you can do if this is her sign. It will past if this is what she have now,the only thing you can do is love her, be more patience with her and stay strong for your daughter............
sounds like with an abusive mom, you need to go and take the daughter with you!! why would you stay, and put your kids through this hell? get your kids outta there, quick!!
The two of you need some counseling. But, my guess is that as your losing weight, your ego is starting to grow. For one thing, girls don't check out guys; guys check out girls. Secondly, I'd get pissed off too if we were having money problems and my hubby was going out spending all the cash on nice new clothes. When is the last time you purchased a new outfit for your wife?