Okay, here's the thing. This girl broke up with me last year. Now I have a new girlfriend who I love very much. However, I got an email reminder of the first's birthday yesterday, with a note saying, ';I do still love her.'; Apparently, I saved that last year after she broke up with me when I still had feelings for her. Anyway, when I read that, it almost felt like it was TELLING me that I do still love her, even just a little bit. But I love my girlfriend now...but what do I do? (preferably to get my mind off the one who broke up with me)...oh, yeah, she told me she still has feelings for me, too...but I told her I didn't because I didn't at the time, but now I'm not so sure. Advice?Relationship advice?
Figure out whom you really have feelings for first and then make your choice and let both of them know what you've decided.Relationship advice?
Maybe your just thinking about the good times. Focus on why your not together to this day. What made your relationship end. Don't be blinded by the good times,its OK to still have feelings. And the one major issue man you still have a girlfriend and you said you love her. Don't just hurt her like that,you've been there and have done that.
you seem better off with the girl you have now. This girl makes you forget about the other one. That is fantastic. Just forget about the ex.
She's an Ex and a part of your past.....leave her there!
Since you have ur second girlfriend come in at the time you were not in a proper emotional state, it would be wise of you to give some time for yourself and think seriously about whom you would like to spend the rest of your life with and then make appropriate decisons.
First of all, its better for suggestions here and not advice.
Now, if it was only an email reminder that you left on your computer, then maybe you dont still love her. You can still have fond feelings and even a bit of love for her, yet you say you love the one you are with. Then love her and let the past stay in the past.
Its better to move on that to hang on to something that took off a long time ago. Enjoy the love that you share with the woman you are with now and let the other go completely. After all, it has been a year right?
Theres no way to get the one woman out of your head completely though. There will always be those little times that the one/ ones you thought you loved will always pop in your mind. The only thing one can do really is move on in life.
Forget about the first girl. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence you know? If it was meant to be it would have worked out the first time. If you love the girl you're with, be content with that.
You're one messed up dude. Search your feelings and decide once and for all. And then do the right thing based on what you decide.
Saying you have feelings for your old GF and she to you is just that - SOME feelings - that you may still love her just a little bit. Is that enough to break up with your current GF? How much do you love your current GF? More or less than your old GF? It is normal to reminisce about old loves and how you used to feel about. Remember, the key word is used to.Good luck to you. I hope you work it out and decide.
The grass always seems greener on the other side. But it's really not.
Ok, if she broke up with you that's her loss and you need to get over her. If you love this new girl you got then ignore TOG!!! Don't let TOG (the old girl) mess it all up for you!!!!
remember she is your ex for a reason! sometimes we long for old relationships but that turns out to be stupid! I went back to an ex and left the most amazing man.. the ex had cheated on me and lied to me! fast forward a year later two months before the wedding i found out he cheated again! I met another man and married him now and four years later am has happy as I can be!!
Saturday, December 19, 2009
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