Relationship Advice..?

I heard from my 18 year old brother the best way to make a relationship work is to let loose.


My definition of that would be:


He could stare at girls, hang out with them. But He still comes to me in the end.


He could act more ignorant and avoidable to me in front of his friends. But he still comes to me in the end.


He could get frusterated and argue with me sometimes.


But he still comes to me in the end.


Him coming to me in the end is what makes it all work


Is my definition correct?Relationship Advice..?
no thats absolutely wrong





the best way to make a good relationship work is communication and trust. Personally, i would hate a realtionship like the one you described and i think most other people would too - but if thats what they want then i guess you should ask them and find out.





But id say the best relationships are the ones where you talk to each other - make nothing be an assumption or awkward





and i would strongly advise you against your ';definiton'; it likely wont work out.Relationship Advice..?
No. Looking at other girls is acceptable, AS LONG AS HE DOESN'T TOUCH! Also, don't let him gawk at a girl while you are with him!!! And he should treat you with respect no matter who he is with, even if its his buds. People argue so i agree with you there. Don't let any man walk all over you!
whaa? why the hell do you mean come to you in the end?? you need some brain cells in your life , you are too weird.
i think that ur bro is rite about lettein loose but i think ur def is incorrect becuase letting loose jus means that u should just be open to ur man and never hold back anything from him always let him know how u feel but also let him u wont take no stuff from him
No, you're wrong.





In my experience a relationship needs to have trust and honesty above anything else for it to be successful. Think of it as a friendship taken to the next level.
no acting ignorant isnt good


Maturity helps alot more
no, your are defining someone who treats you like crap and does not give you the respect you deserve. You should be given your place in public and in private.
No your definition is incorrect please act real and act like yourself and don't pretend not to like the girl in front of your friends show that girl some R-E-S-P-E-C-T........
I assume you are under 18 so yes that works...you shouldn't worry about being all serious in a relationship...you are young so have fun
He is free to look at others, but shall hold you in the highest regard. We are people watchers by nature, silly to get jealous over looking.


He should hold you in respect around friends. There should be no fronting. But you should respect him back by not demanding his time away from those friends.


Arguing is a way of learning each other and compromise must come from both sides.
Let loose I think he meant as just be yourself and don't be clingy.





A guy can notice an attractive girl, but should not gawk. He can have friends that are girls, but should not let it affect your relationship. You should be able to hang out with his friends (girls and guys) with out demanding all of HIS attention. He should NEVER avoid you. He should treat you with respect. He should show his feelings by how he treats you when you are together and when you are apart. It is okay to disagree and argue, but it is not okay for him to call you names or put you down.