Saturday, December 19, 2009

Relationship Advice.....?

I’m with a guy that I absolutely adore. We have been friends for many years, but have entered into a relationship officially a little over a year ago (cue the violins). We are both Christians so we have decided to wait until marriage before we have a sexual relationship. This was ok for a while, but lately I am extremely “heated” and want to indulge. I honestly don’t know what to do about it…it has gotten so bad that my dreams lately have been about my ex and our active sex life. Any advice or tips?Relationship Advice.....?
i think your decision is admirable. i would suggest keeping your relationship as free from temptation as possible. You may want to only see each other during the day time, or in a public place. No late night meetings with only the two of you. There's no need of presenting the temptation constantly without an outlet. Also, keeping your intimacy light may be good. You could always talk out your feelings with him and try to connect on a more spiritual level in order to stay strong. You can do it!Relationship Advice.....?
It is called being horny and either start exploring each other and do stuff short of actual intercourse or go ahead and do it, either way, your not gonna rest until you get some form of release, I'd recommend that you just do some 'heavy' petting and wait until the wedding day, you both need to explore anyway so the NITE isn't a total surprise for you both.
Read your bible more often, pray more often, and see your boyfriend a little less. If you don't get a hold of this now, then you will do something that you can't undo. Try to think more about God. by making Him your focus, those thoughts will fade over time. If you can not restrain yourself, then marry.
The fact that you decided on that is very admirable but if you dont think you can stick to it talk to him about it he may feel the same way if not see what the two of you can work out to where your not having intercourse but you can both get gratification
I'm a christian too and AM GOING to wait for me and my boyfriend. We both agreed to it. Trust me. It's worth the wait. Ask God to help you with this problem or talk to your boyfriend about it.





goodluck!
Ive been in that situation before. Whatever you do, don't give in! Wait until you are married.. you will be so glad you waited. It will show how much your boyfriend means to you!!!
If you're intent on staying with the current b/f you better get busy with masturbation. Nothing wrong with that.
distance your mind from those thoughts by thinking of other things and staying busy.
Its def. worth waiting me and my husband didnt wait and god punished us. it caused a lot of stress
Go to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. I am sure he will agree?
how bout u ask him what he thinks

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