Relationship advice?

So....there is a guy that likes me and i like him and we have been going out. But we have a friend that has been flirting with me and I am starting to really like him. I dont like the guy I am going out with but I adore him enough that I dont want to break up with him. He is so sweet and this other guy is too but I am afraid if I break up with the first guy then nothing will happen with the second guy. what should I do?Relationship advice?
I won't lie to you, You have afew options;


1) break up with the guy you're with now and go out with your friend, You'll be called a cheater (I know you're not a cheater but that's how society will look at it). With that, I doubt that your *soon to be ex* would want to be friends with you, or know you for that fact.


2) break up with the guy you're with now and don't go out with your friend. You can still be friends with both great guys. your *soon to be ex* would probably/maybe understand the situation you're in and he would probably see your point of view and your decision to break up with him, and why you're not going out with your friend.


3) Keep going out with your boyfriend. You'll still have your friend chasing after, and your boyfriend still won't know what's really going on. The guy chasing after you will only get more cunning, and your boyfriend will soon sus something out, probably leading to a jealous fight.


4) run away with me.Relationship advice?
All you have to do is know your feelings with the two guys.But you better stay with the first guy that who is always with you all the time.Why?because you both each other already.
You should listen to what your heart has to say not what your mind is saying. The difference is that very thing you stated there ';...I am afraid if I break up with the first guy then nothing will happen with the second guy.'; Wieghing outcomes is the work of the brain. Go with the guy you ';feeling'; the most and don't care about the other will say or think. You don't depend on that you depend on what you feel. I hope you pick the man YOU want.
Ask the second guy if he is looking for a relationship. if he is and you really like him, then nicely break up with the 1st guy. you shouldnt feel bad if your heart is just not in it.
go with your instincts. Whatever you really want will eventually come out. Look at the two scenarios,,, who would you rather be with longer? who would you risk for? dont worry ;%26gt;
you should follow what your heart tells you to do :)
dont ever stay with someone simply because you feel sorry for them or are worried about hurting them!! The only reason you should be in a relationship is because that's who you want to be with. Otherwise, you're just giving that guy false hope.....