so me and my girlfriend have been together for awhile and we both really like eachother...but it just seems that i put more emotion into the relationship...but its just little things that bug me..like me making hints to her to make her thing on facebook say In a relationship...I mean i did it and im proud to show off my girlfriend it just seems like somthing you would do out of respect? just getting frustrating over stupid things how can i deal with this?? just seems like shes better at holding in emotionsRelationship Advice?
sounds like me.... back in highschool.. back when i wasn't sure about my bf so i didn't even have him as a friend on myspace. that and i didnt know if he even had an account. but lol id talk to her just say hey if u dont want to you dont have to but we have been dating for awhile now so i dunno you know she might be like oh im sorry here n change it :)Relationship Advice?
You're sensitive! And thats OK. God never wrote it down in the bible that said you can't be emotional and sensitive. So go ahead, be romantic around her, show her your committed online--its perfectly fine. Shes most likely on the same page, just can't keep up with all the little things you'd like to perfect in your relationship. Talk with her about her emotions--girls like that. Like you said, you both like each other, meaning there is most certainly nothing to worry about!
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why must you waste your time in putting importance to facebook status and etc. your just creating a bad environment for yourself and the only way is to just have talk with her because keeping it in yourself can get you crazyyy and like you see you have been together for awhile so why must you hide what you are feeling enough with the hints be blunt and open be comfortable because you have feeling for her so trust her with your feelings =]
well, actually its true that there are some people that are better in holding emotions. dont worry dude, its normal. youre not the first person i know whos had this dilemma. a friend of mine had the exact same situation. i guess you just have to go with the flow. if you really like her, you wont make facebook a problem, coz if you think about its just facebook. seriously. its just a website. whats important is how she is to you..if she treats you right. if you probably keep bugging her about the facebook issue, chances are she might get turned off by your clingyness. so dont worry too much. best advice is, just go with the flow and dont make facebook a problem for your relationship. just think. its just facebook. not a big deal. then again this is just my opinion.
It's NOT stupid. We're identified by labels and she's still labeling herself 'single.' My question is... why? You've honored the integrity of your relationship by taking yourself off the market! Why? Because it's important for you to let the world know I'M TAKEN!!!!
With that said...
You need to chill. You can look at this situation through any set of eyes you wish but why is it important to you. How important are the 'important' things in your life if you focus your attention on facebook and the status of her relationship status...????
What's your damage?
IT's no big deal. I have lots of friends, girls and guys who are taken but their facebook still says single. Then months later, they update it. The common thing is, they just probably forgot it. Don't stress over little things like this. LIke you said, you and her really like each other and have been dating for a while. That's what matters. If she didn't like you, you wouldn't be here to complain to us.
i see what you mean.. but you should focus on how she treats you. im the emotional one in my relationship and little things bug me too..but u have to let,sometimes theyre not as important as you think. maybe she doesnt take the facebook status that seriously.? that doesnt mean she doesnt care for you.
well, maybe you should just tell her.
because maybe she just hasn't relized it.
or just talk to her about why is it like that or what's up?
%26amp;%26amp; if you put more emotion into the relationship.. then that just shows you care enough, its more likely to talk to her instead of her just have it like that.
Tell her that you'd like her to change her status. Your relationship seems much stronger that facebook or myspace, but I can see how little things like that matter. Just be open and tell her it bugs you a bit. Good luck!
get a grip dude.... i do that all the time and it doesnt mean i hate my bf... and try to have a convo with ur girl
givers and takers. Sounds like you're the giver... No worries, let her know it won't work like that once she's barefoot and preggie in the kitchen making you chocolate chip waffles
Dude talk to her.
Try not to talk @ her and Listen to her.
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yes put of respect sorta u r doing it because u wanna make her feel good and impress her i do it allot
It's her page, let her put whatever she wants on it. You are being way too picky. Quit acting so weepy. Man up!!!!
dont sweat the small stuff. they hate that. she will let it build up over time an she's gonna explode an u gone feel stupid.
taslk gently to her about it
tell her
I would feel the same way. If you have issues, then I do too.
a real man dont take nuthing 2 heart and she will love you for that
Saturday, December 19, 2009
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