alright, so i've been with my boyfriend for about three years now. i love him and all but at the same time i feel like i'm wasting my youth with him, like i'm missing out on the best years of my life. i hope i don't seem like a horrible person but i really want to get out and be with other guys.
at the same time though, i should think about the future like maybe ill have a real future with him, and i don't want to ruin it so i can go out and be with other guys that might not ever mean anything.
i'm just confused, any advice? anything at all.Relationship Advice?
Right now you should worry more about experiencing life. Experience is what being young is all about. If you let yourself miss out on all these experiences simply for the sake of a relationship you will eventually regret that relationship and tear it apart because you will realize what you missed and know you can't go back.Relationship Advice?
You are wasting the best years and it sounds like you'll end up cheating on him anyway (curiosity will get the best of you at some point).
Break up and go have fun, he's probably getting tired of you too.
i no exactly wat u shud do
i shud tell him u need sometime away from eachother
u can explain to him how u feel
then after afew months go by get back together =)
trust me if u are a guy and u are in your youth if u are going out with a girl u know ur never going to get married to her. so i think u should just go out and enjoy yourself with or without him
With those thoughts? Move on!
Get out now......you will regret it later if you don't.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Relationship advice?
i've been w/ my boyfriend for about 3 years, (living together for 2 yrs) now. and well, i'm having a pretty hard time with some things. when things are great, they're great. we get along, laugh, have a great bond, etc. i mean, i couldn't be happier. but, when the stresses of his finances and/or work come up, he doesn't know how to deal. i mean, more then often he takes it out on me and/or our relationship. it's gotten to the point of where i feel like i'm walking on egg shells. i don't know whether to be in a good mood around him, distant, supportive, quiet, etc. i mean, last night for example...he totally lashed out on me! he called me selfish, told me that i dont love him, that he doesn't trust me, (bc i don't pick up my phone 24/7) that this isn't working, i'm always out w/ my friends, and so on. i mean, it's totally off the wall too bc everything he says is untrue a total actual reflection of how he acts towards me. he's the one that has started pushing me away, says hurtfulRelationship advice?
I empathize with your situation and its really sad the way your man is treating you. It must be really difficult for you but i understand.
I do believe however that he has a lot going on in his life, some of which he obviously is not dealing with healthily. It sounds to me like he is very good at projecting his behaviors on you.
I think he may be feeling insecure because he realizes that he is not spending enough time with you and that he is afraid that you will move on. No amount of words will rectify this. You have to find creative means of showing him that inspite of situations you still love him.
Do you have a cell? Call him for no reason sometimes just to let him know that you miss him and love him. When he gets home don't nag him about not spending enough time with you. I think he is well aware of that. Don't rub it into his face. Cuddle him, kiss him, give him a massage, ask him about his day and really listen, soak his feet, pamper him a little. Write little love notes and stick it in places that you know he will find them. If he's stressed out its pointless to keep him feeling that way.
Since you have a lot of time on your hands and he doesn't, try to make the little time that you spend together as fun and fruitful as possible. Make him want to come home to his place of refuge....to you.
If all this does not work , then im afraid you need to give him some space. But do not leave him before you give him a chance. The worst thing you could do is to leave him hanging when he is between a rock and a hard place. That will only strengthen his insecurities.
Hope this helped.Relationship advice?
I'm sorry for what he's putting you through, but if you aren't happy and if he's not making any effort to try and work things out with you, as hard as it going to be, you might just have to end things. It's not right that he take out his issues at work or his financial issues with you, your his girlfriend, and your there to support him, not there to be his punching bag. Be strong sweetie! I wish you the best!!!
Hey Beach Lover!
I would really want to know the name of the movie you are telling about!
Its over. He isn'tt treating you like he loves you. You are avoiding him and he doesn't have the confidence in the realtionship that he should. He is trying to control you. WTF is up with guys and video games. I'm a guy I play them. But I'm an adult. Playing them until 4? Does he not like sex? Paying attention to a video game over your girlfriend is a crime. Punishable by forced abstonence. Dump his ungrateful ***.
This happened to me at one point in time in my relationship with my boyfriend. I won't get into details, but it stemmed from his job and his undecisiveness with life in general.
I am sure he loves you and he knows that you love him, or you wouldn't put up with his ****. There are several reasons for all of this. He just isn't interested in you anymore and he is cheating on you, and he's trying to end it but can't get the guts to just tell you so he hurts you instead. He could be really stressed out about things and just doesn't know how to deal with them.Or he could just be really confused on what he wants in life and in a relationship.
My suggestion is that you move out. Get away from him for awhile. Let him figure things out for himself...what he wants, where he wants to be in life...so forth. He doesn't realize how much he is hurting you, you have to show him how much he is hurting you...telling him won't help, he won't listen. SHOW him by moving out.
Don't tell him you are moving, just one day don't be there anymore. Pack all your stuff up and leave. You don't deserve to be the brunt of all of his mistakes, confusion, or whatever it may be.
I can't guarantee that he will realize what he just lost and come crawling back, like my man did, but at this point, you need to make yourself happy. Honestly, you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, and you deserve to be happy.
If he comes back, which I hope he does, then great...but if not, then you will have to move on and forget about him. He doesn't have the right to attack you like this...you have done nothing wrong...you just love him, and that's why you must give him his space to figure things out.
If it's meant to be, it will be!
He sounds immature. Move out, you guys need your space. It seems he has given up on trying to keep you, because he either doesnt believe you will leave or he in fact is more interested in his video games. He could also be gay, and surprise you anyday with an out of the closet statement
Well, if you have to deal with this now, you're going to have to deal with it for the rest of your life if you choose to stay with him. That's my most important point.
My dad is one of those guys, also. When he doesn't have a lot of money in his pockets to play with, he takes it out on my, my siblings, and my stepmom. Let me tell you, it's not fun when he's unhappy or stressed. Your significant other is supposed to be someone that you can talk to when you're having problems, and the two of you are supposed to help each other. How can he help you when he's too caught up in his own problems, and doesn't come to you for help, but uses you as a scapegoat instead?
Something you should be attentive to is the way your significant other reacts in difficult situations. If you don't like what you find, just keep in mind that you're going to see a lot of that side. Nobody is happy all the time. Adults deal with a lot of stress.
I hope I gave you something to think about.
wow it soundes like to me that he isnt intrested in you anymore or he is cheating on you.But you have tried to talk him him and it soundes like he wants you to leave.I mean i knows it hard and im sure you love him.I dont understand hwy he would sya such a thing to you.I dunno try to approach him in a different way.If it doesnt work out soon then i would leave it might turn into an abusive relationship soon.
You should not be living with him if you are not married to him, you are committing fornication.
Move out and don't move back until he is willing to marry you and be committed to only you.
That will be the true test of him, will he be willing to commit to only you? You don't want him if he isn't. Relationships with no commitment are bogus anyway. They don't last.
So move out, and when he wants you to come back, tell him not with out a marriage license, you will find out then how he truly feels and if he is worth all the trouble or not.
I empathize with your situation and its really sad the way your man is treating you. It must be really difficult for you but i understand.
I do believe however that he has a lot going on in his life, some of which he obviously is not dealing with healthily. It sounds to me like he is very good at projecting his behaviors on you.
I think he may be feeling insecure because he realizes that he is not spending enough time with you and that he is afraid that you will move on. No amount of words will rectify this. You have to find creative means of showing him that inspite of situations you still love him.
Do you have a cell? Call him for no reason sometimes just to let him know that you miss him and love him. When he gets home don't nag him about not spending enough time with you. I think he is well aware of that. Don't rub it into his face. Cuddle him, kiss him, give him a massage, ask him about his day and really listen, soak his feet, pamper him a little. Write little love notes and stick it in places that you know he will find them. If he's stressed out its pointless to keep him feeling that way.
Since you have a lot of time on your hands and he doesn't, try to make the little time that you spend together as fun and fruitful as possible. Make him want to come home to his place of refuge....to you.
If all this does not work , then im afraid you need to give him some space. But do not leave him before you give him a chance. The worst thing you could do is to leave him hanging when he is between a rock and a hard place. That will only strengthen his insecurities.
Hope this helped.Relationship advice?
I'm sorry for what he's putting you through, but if you aren't happy and if he's not making any effort to try and work things out with you, as hard as it going to be, you might just have to end things. It's not right that he take out his issues at work or his financial issues with you, your his girlfriend, and your there to support him, not there to be his punching bag. Be strong sweetie! I wish you the best!!!
Hey Beach Lover!
I would really want to know the name of the movie you are telling about!
Its over. He isn'tt treating you like he loves you. You are avoiding him and he doesn't have the confidence in the realtionship that he should. He is trying to control you. WTF is up with guys and video games. I'm a guy I play them. But I'm an adult. Playing them until 4? Does he not like sex? Paying attention to a video game over your girlfriend is a crime. Punishable by forced abstonence. Dump his ungrateful ***.
This happened to me at one point in time in my relationship with my boyfriend. I won't get into details, but it stemmed from his job and his undecisiveness with life in general.
I am sure he loves you and he knows that you love him, or you wouldn't put up with his ****. There are several reasons for all of this. He just isn't interested in you anymore and he is cheating on you, and he's trying to end it but can't get the guts to just tell you so he hurts you instead. He could be really stressed out about things and just doesn't know how to deal with them.Or he could just be really confused on what he wants in life and in a relationship.
My suggestion is that you move out. Get away from him for awhile. Let him figure things out for himself...what he wants, where he wants to be in life...so forth. He doesn't realize how much he is hurting you, you have to show him how much he is hurting you...telling him won't help, he won't listen. SHOW him by moving out.
Don't tell him you are moving, just one day don't be there anymore. Pack all your stuff up and leave. You don't deserve to be the brunt of all of his mistakes, confusion, or whatever it may be.
I can't guarantee that he will realize what he just lost and come crawling back, like my man did, but at this point, you need to make yourself happy. Honestly, you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, and you deserve to be happy.
If he comes back, which I hope he does, then great...but if not, then you will have to move on and forget about him. He doesn't have the right to attack you like this...you have done nothing wrong...you just love him, and that's why you must give him his space to figure things out.
If it's meant to be, it will be!
He sounds immature. Move out, you guys need your space. It seems he has given up on trying to keep you, because he either doesnt believe you will leave or he in fact is more interested in his video games. He could also be gay, and surprise you anyday with an out of the closet statement
Well, if you have to deal with this now, you're going to have to deal with it for the rest of your life if you choose to stay with him. That's my most important point.
My dad is one of those guys, also. When he doesn't have a lot of money in his pockets to play with, he takes it out on my, my siblings, and my stepmom. Let me tell you, it's not fun when he's unhappy or stressed. Your significant other is supposed to be someone that you can talk to when you're having problems, and the two of you are supposed to help each other. How can he help you when he's too caught up in his own problems, and doesn't come to you for help, but uses you as a scapegoat instead?
Something you should be attentive to is the way your significant other reacts in difficult situations. If you don't like what you find, just keep in mind that you're going to see a lot of that side. Nobody is happy all the time. Adults deal with a lot of stress.
I hope I gave you something to think about.
wow it soundes like to me that he isnt intrested in you anymore or he is cheating on you.But you have tried to talk him him and it soundes like he wants you to leave.I mean i knows it hard and im sure you love him.I dont understand hwy he would sya such a thing to you.I dunno try to approach him in a different way.If it doesnt work out soon then i would leave it might turn into an abusive relationship soon.
You should not be living with him if you are not married to him, you are committing fornication.
Move out and don't move back until he is willing to marry you and be committed to only you.
That will be the true test of him, will he be willing to commit to only you? You don't want him if he isn't. Relationships with no commitment are bogus anyway. They don't last.
So move out, and when he wants you to come back, tell him not with out a marriage license, you will find out then how he truly feels and if he is worth all the trouble or not.
Relationship advice...?
I've been on and off with an amazingly supportive guy for about 3 years now - he loves me, the parents love him, he's always there. The problem is me. When we're ';official'; I tend to freak out, do stupid things and generally tend to mess up everything. Currently we're dating in everything but calling it that.. For some reason calling him my boyfriend, talking about the future, or anything that tries to define what we are scares the crap out of me. I don't know what to do about my commitment issues. Any advice?Relationship advice...?
why talk about the future?
my bf and i have beem together for two years and we dont plan on breaking up any time soon. as he says, we're in a happy comitted relationship.
but i have, at this point in time, no idea what the future holds. i cant see myself being with him forever
just be happy. dont overthink things ... its scarier when you doRelationship advice...?
Thats just something that you 2 need to talk about and you will have to figure out your issues and then solve them
you've got about this with him. In that way, he might help you and understand you better. Remember the movie, ';runaway bride?'; just learn to be more open to him, if you really like him and he likes you very much he'd find a way to understand.
goodluck!lipstick gloss
why talk about the future?
my bf and i have beem together for two years and we dont plan on breaking up any time soon. as he says, we're in a happy comitted relationship.
but i have, at this point in time, no idea what the future holds. i cant see myself being with him forever
just be happy. dont overthink things ... its scarier when you doRelationship advice...?
Thats just something that you 2 need to talk about and you will have to figure out your issues and then solve them
you've got about this with him. In that way, he might help you and understand you better. Remember the movie, ';runaway bride?'; just learn to be more open to him, if you really like him and he likes you very much he'd find a way to understand.
goodluck!
Relationship Advice?
alright, so i've been with my boyfriend for about three years now. i love him and all but at the same time i feel like i'm wasting my youth with him, like i'm missing out on the best years of my life. i hope i don't seem like a horrible person but i really want to get out and be with other guys.
at the same time though, i should think about the future like maybe ill have a real future with him, and i don't want to ruin it so i can go out and be with other guys that might not ever mean anything.
i'm just confused, any advice? anything at all.Relationship Advice?
Right now you should worry more about experiencing life. Experience is what being young is all about. If you let yourself miss out on all these experiences simply for the sake of a relationship you will eventually regret that relationship and tear it apart because you will realize what you missed and know you can't go back.Relationship Advice?
You are wasting the best years and it sounds like you'll end up cheating on him anyway (curiosity will get the best of you at some point).
Break up and go have fun, he's probably getting tired of you too.
i no exactly wat u shud do
i shud tell him u need sometime away from eachother
u can explain to him how u feel
then after afew months go by get back together =)
trust me if u are a guy and u are in your youth if u are going out with a girl u know ur never going to get married to her. so i think u should just go out and enjoy yourself with or without him
With those thoughts? Move on!
Get out now......you will regret it later if you don't.
at the same time though, i should think about the future like maybe ill have a real future with him, and i don't want to ruin it so i can go out and be with other guys that might not ever mean anything.
i'm just confused, any advice? anything at all.Relationship Advice?
Right now you should worry more about experiencing life. Experience is what being young is all about. If you let yourself miss out on all these experiences simply for the sake of a relationship you will eventually regret that relationship and tear it apart because you will realize what you missed and know you can't go back.Relationship Advice?
You are wasting the best years and it sounds like you'll end up cheating on him anyway (curiosity will get the best of you at some point).
Break up and go have fun, he's probably getting tired of you too.
i no exactly wat u shud do
i shud tell him u need sometime away from eachother
u can explain to him how u feel
then after afew months go by get back together =)
trust me if u are a guy and u are in your youth if u are going out with a girl u know ur never going to get married to her. so i think u should just go out and enjoy yourself with or without him
With those thoughts? Move on!
Get out now......you will regret it later if you don't.
Relationship advice?
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. When we go to the bar with his buddies he can be obnoxious towards me and treat me like a prize. Will he change for me? SHould i take a break or just end it?Relationship advice?
Keep staying with him. If he does it one more time then dump him.
Keep staying with him. If he does it one more time then dump him.
I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
My boyfriend in the begging of our relationship was more affectionate. When we kissed it would be a special kiss and now he gives me only pecks. He is mormon and I am not, I don't if it is because of religious beliefs, because I heard you are not supposed to have long passionate kisses? Is that true. Also we are seven years apart and he calls me little girl and I think that is insulting and told him that. I wrote him a nice email completing him and he didn't seem to appreciate it. He is constantly asking me to meet with the elders of the church. He does pick me up every weekend and take me outt, but lately I sense he has been maybe a little more distant, maybe he is scared because of the whole differnce in our religion. What is your opinion on this relationship do you think he wants to be just friends? Do you have any suggestions on how I can polietly ask him if he is dating me just to try to convert me or if he really likes me for me.I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
My advice is to walk away from this guy. If he is 7 years different in age, then that is enough right now to make a big difference. If he is calling you his little girl, that attitude will not go away.
You don't have to ask him what his intent is. He keeps asking you to meet with the elders so that you would convert to Mormonism.I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
A good thing about Mormons is that they are very family oriented and generally moral people. The bad thing is that if you are a really good Mormon, you and him will get your own planet to be god over, where you will be eternally pregnant producing spirit babies to inhabit the world that you rule. This is true! Look it up. Right now, they believe that Jehovah is on planet Kolob doing that very thing.
Dating a Mormon is bad business unless you're interested in becoming a Mormon. If he's serious about his faith, his religious beliefs will hold dominant sway, and you will have to submit to them in order for him to ultimately accept you. Right now, he's most likely trying to get you converted so that he can have a legitimate relationship with you which will be approved by the church elders.
Depending on which strand of Mormonism he is, you may not be the only chicken in the hen house after a while either. Some of the more fundamentalist Mormons are still polygamists.
My personal advice to you is to get as far away from Mormonism as you possibly can. If that means that you have to end this relationship, it will be a small price to pay compared to the brainwashing you would sustain if you stay and convert.
He needs to find a good Mormon girl with whom he's already compatible, and you need to get away from that system before it sucks you in too.
Best of luck.
My advice is to walk away from this guy. If he is 7 years different in age, then that is enough right now to make a big difference. If he is calling you his little girl, that attitude will not go away.
You don't have to ask him what his intent is. He keeps asking you to meet with the elders so that you would convert to Mormonism.I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
A good thing about Mormons is that they are very family oriented and generally moral people. The bad thing is that if you are a really good Mormon, you and him will get your own planet to be god over, where you will be eternally pregnant producing spirit babies to inhabit the world that you rule. This is true! Look it up. Right now, they believe that Jehovah is on planet Kolob doing that very thing.
Dating a Mormon is bad business unless you're interested in becoming a Mormon. If he's serious about his faith, his religious beliefs will hold dominant sway, and you will have to submit to them in order for him to ultimately accept you. Right now, he's most likely trying to get you converted so that he can have a legitimate relationship with you which will be approved by the church elders.
Depending on which strand of Mormonism he is, you may not be the only chicken in the hen house after a while either. Some of the more fundamentalist Mormons are still polygamists.
My personal advice to you is to get as far away from Mormonism as you possibly can. If that means that you have to end this relationship, it will be a small price to pay compared to the brainwashing you would sustain if you stay and convert.
He needs to find a good Mormon girl with whom he's already compatible, and you need to get away from that system before it sucks you in too.
Best of luck.
Relationship advice pleaseee.?
so,
i recently just started talking to my ex a few months ago and now were both starting to like each other that way again.
he came over a few days ago and we made out and stuff.
and i talked to him about ever getting back together and he said hes just not sure.
and i was feeling that way too.
till recently cause i cant get him outta my mind.
i asked him like 3246876 times if it was cause i needed to fix something i wasnt doing right and he said its not me hes just not sure if he wants to be with a girl right now cause hes going through alot of stress right now and doesnt know if a relationship is what he wants.
and he wants to be with me, but hes just not 100% sure.
its just all really confusing cause he says he loves me and he says he likes me, but hes just not sure.
and its been killing me lately.
and i have no idea how to go about this.
so...how do i get him to be 100% sure of me?
what can i do.
please i need help.
im starting to fall for him again and i dont wanna get hurt.
***best answer 10 pts***Relationship advice pleaseee.?
first of all honey why did u guys break up? remember that first. then ask urself if this is what u really want. well the guy told u what he wants so leave him alone. don't make such an effort to talk to him or see him. see how far he will go for u. if he gives up easily then honey it wasn't meant to be. but if he comes back to u then maybe there is a good chance. Relationship advice pleaseee.?
you guys broke up before and trying to rekindle the relationship. Now if you call him 3246876 times, he's not going to like it. It's a turn off. You have already expressed your interest, wait for him to do so too. Till then take it slow.
I would say you should definitely LISTEN to what he is saying and make sure you HEAR what he is telling you, because if you just listen but don't really digest the fact that he is not ready to be in a committed relationship with you, then you will end up hurt.
In addition to that, I think you should discontinue getting involved with him physically until he is one hundred percent sure that he wants to be in a relationship with you. It goes without saying that two people can continue to be physical with one another, and while one is thinking the physical chemistry means a relationship is on the horizon, the other is thinking the complete opposite. I think sometimes we as woman are quick to equate a physical relationship with the potential for something serious, and it sounds like that is what you are doing here. My advice to you is to stay clear of any physical contact with him as much as possible and try to limit the overall amount of time you spend with him be it on the phone or in person.
The last thing you want is to be involved with someone who is ';confused'; about what they want to do in terms a relationship with you. If he ended things with you, then it should be clear that he is capable of becoming and getting clear about what he wants and does not want in his life. DO NOT wait around for him to decide if and/or when he wants to resume a relationship with you. You could be waiting around forever on that one, and in the meantime miss out on the chance to live your life, meet new people, and be happy.
I say you two were together and broke up for a reason, so it's best to close that chapter as painful as it may be and move on. If you are willing to put yourself through all this for someone who has to decide if and when they are ready to be with you, imagine how much better you will feel to be with someone who GENUINELY KNOWS that he WANTS to be with you. There is no greater feeling.
Good luck.
the worst thing you can do is try to GET someone to be 100% sure of you, he eighter is, or he isn't, it's black and white, and right now he says he isn't, i think you should be greatfull that he realizes this Before making a commitment, you guys are exs for a reason, and it's natural to be attracted to the good times, and when you're feeling it, its easy to forget the bad times, but i think you should take it slow, and try not to get too attached, think about why it ended, and are you both mature enough and have you grown emotionally as individuals to give it another go? good luck!!!
i recently just started talking to my ex a few months ago and now were both starting to like each other that way again.
he came over a few days ago and we made out and stuff.
and i talked to him about ever getting back together and he said hes just not sure.
and i was feeling that way too.
till recently cause i cant get him outta my mind.
i asked him like 3246876 times if it was cause i needed to fix something i wasnt doing right and he said its not me hes just not sure if he wants to be with a girl right now cause hes going through alot of stress right now and doesnt know if a relationship is what he wants.
and he wants to be with me, but hes just not 100% sure.
its just all really confusing cause he says he loves me and he says he likes me, but hes just not sure.
and its been killing me lately.
and i have no idea how to go about this.
so...how do i get him to be 100% sure of me?
what can i do.
please i need help.
im starting to fall for him again and i dont wanna get hurt.
***best answer 10 pts***Relationship advice pleaseee.?
first of all honey why did u guys break up? remember that first. then ask urself if this is what u really want. well the guy told u what he wants so leave him alone. don't make such an effort to talk to him or see him. see how far he will go for u. if he gives up easily then honey it wasn't meant to be. but if he comes back to u then maybe there is a good chance. Relationship advice pleaseee.?
you guys broke up before and trying to rekindle the relationship. Now if you call him 3246876 times, he's not going to like it. It's a turn off. You have already expressed your interest, wait for him to do so too. Till then take it slow.
I would say you should definitely LISTEN to what he is saying and make sure you HEAR what he is telling you, because if you just listen but don't really digest the fact that he is not ready to be in a committed relationship with you, then you will end up hurt.
In addition to that, I think you should discontinue getting involved with him physically until he is one hundred percent sure that he wants to be in a relationship with you. It goes without saying that two people can continue to be physical with one another, and while one is thinking the physical chemistry means a relationship is on the horizon, the other is thinking the complete opposite. I think sometimes we as woman are quick to equate a physical relationship with the potential for something serious, and it sounds like that is what you are doing here. My advice to you is to stay clear of any physical contact with him as much as possible and try to limit the overall amount of time you spend with him be it on the phone or in person.
The last thing you want is to be involved with someone who is ';confused'; about what they want to do in terms a relationship with you. If he ended things with you, then it should be clear that he is capable of becoming and getting clear about what he wants and does not want in his life. DO NOT wait around for him to decide if and/or when he wants to resume a relationship with you. You could be waiting around forever on that one, and in the meantime miss out on the chance to live your life, meet new people, and be happy.
I say you two were together and broke up for a reason, so it's best to close that chapter as painful as it may be and move on. If you are willing to put yourself through all this for someone who has to decide if and when they are ready to be with you, imagine how much better you will feel to be with someone who GENUINELY KNOWS that he WANTS to be with you. There is no greater feeling.
Good luck.
the worst thing you can do is try to GET someone to be 100% sure of you, he eighter is, or he isn't, it's black and white, and right now he says he isn't, i think you should be greatfull that he realizes this Before making a commitment, you guys are exs for a reason, and it's natural to be attracted to the good times, and when you're feeling it, its easy to forget the bad times, but i think you should take it slow, and try not to get too attached, think about why it ended, and are you both mature enough and have you grown emotionally as individuals to give it another go? good luck!!!
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