kind of a long story. I'm a sophmore in highschool and i met this girl fall of my freshman year, i couldn't take my eyes off her the first night i saw her. but she found this other guy, who ended up hurting her. then because she was scared of getting hurt she would say she didn't want a boyfriend (she knew i liked her the whole time), she was more into partying and stuff than having a boyfriend. this whole time i was depressed and eventually we started talking towards the end of last summer but it didn;t work. after a rough autumn this year for me, she started to relaize she had liked me all along. we have been dating since the end of december. (our 4 month is saturday). she is now absolutely crazy about me, but i've been making mistakes as a boyfriend and i really care about her, but sometimes i feel like i don't like her as much, sometimes i feel like i'm still crazy about her. I don't know what to do. i dont know how i feel. I know she's right for me. Any help at all would be greatRelationship advice?
You're young, and naturally your feelings fluctuate.
Everyone changes throughout their lives - the trick is to plan and decide the direction you want to go.
You are mature enough to realise and admit you have made mistakes - all humans make mistakes!
Try not to take your relationship over seriously, because you will both change. Let's face it, you'll probably live to around 100, as life expectancy is increasing. Do you really think you'll want to be with the same person for 80 odd years?!
Have fun and enjoy your feelings and your relationship without getting too heavy if you can.
Good luck!Relationship advice?
look your too young to be worrying about all this drama . you have lots of future to look ahead and nether of you know what love is yet and both of you are learning how to swim by getting wet . listen to her and just do your best to improve yourself and be the best bf you can and maybe shes the one but odds are shes not . your confusion is normal and if in a few years your still with her then start thinking about vows but for now enjoy the bliss of being young and follow your heart .
you're not supposed to know how to feel. you can't control how you feel. sometimes when in a relationship it can seem like the love is uneven, and thats perfectly natural. but if you begin to feel like u straight up DONT like her anymore, then you shouldnt deny it, cuz it can lead to lying and hate. dont wonder how you should feel. just recognize what you feel and embrace it. thats all you can do.
im only 13 and i hava bf soo this works for me but idk....... i felt that way wat i did was keeped daten them and then i thought about if i really dont like them is houldnt date them but i loved them and didnt know wat to do i made a list of y loved them and y i didnt and went from there
I think you need to ask yourself why do you have mixed emotions...if it is for a good reason then tell her about it and if you can't find an answer then you definitely need to grow up,sorry if that sounded harsh but it is true
When your with someone, you don't feel in love with them everyday.. You said she wasn't into you at first, so maybe your a little afraid to get to close to her, because your afraid she might hurt you...
If you really are crazy about her you'll quit making mistakes.
dud those feelings are totally normal wen ur not sure just think about wat makes her gr8 and so then ull lik her and good luck in the future!!!!!!
maybe u liked her more because u had to chase her. now it's easy for u because u got her. but if u break up with her and u miss her then that shows that u really like her.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
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