It's a lil long but I really need some help with this.....
While I was at my dad's I started talking to someone online and fell for him big time. I came back early so we can meet up. We met up on Friday, had a great night and he asked me out. Was so happy! Didn't see him Saturday as we both had things to do. Spent time together yesterday, I went to his, watched a movie and one thing led to another. He kept telling me how much he'd fallen for me and was so happy being with me. He said he could see us being together for a long time. Last night we were talking online and he was acting different. He told me his nan has to have a triple heart bypass thingy and he wants us to slow down a bit. I was hoping it wasn't all just a few lines I fell for. Regret sleeping with him and hating myself. To be honest, I want to curl up and cry.
He said he doesn't want to risk losing his nan and then losing me with the way he will be. He reckons he'd end up killing himself with drink if she died. She has her op in a few weeks and he said he'll do whatever it takes to get me back, if everything is okay with her. All I said was I really hope she is okay but I can't promise things will go back the way they were. Sounds a lil strange as we were only together a few days but I really like him and he says he really likes me.
What should I do??Relationship advice, what should I do?
He's threatening to drink himself to death if his granny dies? Yikes. Doesn't say much for his coping skills, at the very least. It's probably a good thing this is coming up before you get any more attached.
That said, don't beat yourself up. You got caught up in the moment and the excitement. It happens. Just use this as a reminder and incentive to take things slower and stick to public dates for a little while longer next time.Relationship advice, what should I do?
LOL. That guy exactly sounded like my playboy friend. A little story about my friend here, meet pretty girls that he met online. Dated til have sex and find all the excuse to get rid of them. Girl, you just stepped into a pile of Sheet. And we called it the Triple F theory ';Find, Fuuck, Flee';. Please learn from your mistake.
Whenever you people talka bout your relationships it reminds me about a relatioship i had in the past with one of my gfs the one i loved and i miss it soo much, wish u luck.
sounds like he was only out for sex and now that he has gone it he is done with you sorry hope i am wrong but it sounds like that is all he wanted.
Friday, April 30, 2010
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