Relationship advice?

i have known this guy for five years. we met in high school and attend the same college. but, anyway, we have always been good friends but during our freshman year in college we hooked up. we decided to become friends with benefits because neither one of us wanted anything serious. we also hooked up with other ppl. anyway, he gave me this long speech about how he is tired of playing the field and wants a committed relationship. he said he was tired of me going out with other dudes and wanted me to himself. he asked me if i wanted to go out with him and i immediately said yes bcuz lately i have been wanting the same thing. so we decided to go steady but the next day he said one of the girl he was hooking up with just found out she was pregnant. NOW HERE COMES THE PART WHERE I NEED THE ADVICE: As much as i loved him and wanted to be with him i knew i had to let him go because i felt like he owed it to himself and his unborn child to give it a shot with the mother.Relationship advice?
You certainly don't need to be told that those are the risks you take with an uncommitted relationship. You were friends for years and you crossed the boundaries of friendship and now you're paying the consequences of those actions.


I think you're wise to let him go. There's no guarantee that he will end up in a relationship with the mother of his child.... perhaps neither of them will even want to do that. If you stay with him, you have to be prepared to have his child as part of your lives along with the baby's mother and that situation might work or it might not.


Once you bring sex into the relationship, you take it to another level and that's where the pain and heartache comes in. There really is no such thing as ';casual'; sex......there is always a price to pay for it!


He needs to resolve his issues with his child's mother and work out a plan with her for what they are going to do, or not going to do.


Personally, it would be a huge issue for me knowing he was having sex with another woman the same time he was having sex with me. That would be something I don't know if I could get past.


You have some serious thinking to do. What you decide is going to affect the lives of 4 people.....yours, his, his child and his child's mother...........not a real nice situation to be in.Relationship advice?
I really dont know what to say!!! It is up to him%26amp;her now!!! We know what is [THE RIGHT THING TO DO] But they have to figure out weather or not they will be happy!!! Because thats what really matters!!!