Needing Good Relationship Advice?!?

I have a great boyfriend I have been seeing for about 9 months. We have the best relationship of my life and are in love. We are talking about moving in together and are very happy. My problem is this: he has an ex of 12 years. I am intimidated by this because I am younger than him and I consider her more of an ex wife even though they weren't married, just lived together. He helped raise her children and loves them like his own. I am younger than him and haven't had a long term relationship so i feel i can't compete with 12 years. He assures me I make him the happiest he's ever been.





The main problem is this; they bought a house together years ago that she and the kids and now her new bf live in. My bf is upset because he feels he should get money back from the house since they kept it and now her new bf lives there. I told my bf to let it go and we will have own own house someday. he agrees but I still feel jealous that he is thinking and bothered by this. What's the mature thing?Needing Good Relationship Advice?!?
Dont get insecure. He loves you and you just trust him.Its only the money part he is thinking about.Needing Good Relationship Advice?!?
apparently she has moved on... it's not like he's seeing her behind your back ... that's the past. he loves u now.
Well you done came to the right place, sugar!


That's what ye call one a-them there en-tangle-ments...


Appears t'me you are like the guy


who was so mixed up he didn't know whether


to poop or go blind, so he


closed one eye and left a fart.


Pretty good ad-vice ay?


They don't call me ';genius'; fer nuthin!


(I been ter one o' Mr Joo-lee-anny's public scools!)
These days, most young ladies like you are blinded by love and the fact that they 'don't want to break his heart...' You have to look out for number one. Until you two can genuinely start a life fair, free and clean of the past, you should either move on, or move out of state.





You would let someone bring their garbage to your house to put in your fridge would you? I understand it's hard to be nice, but what about your feelings? What if it was the other way around?





You're not married and money is already an issue in his life. Don't make it yours.