Relationship Advice, Please help, Thanks!?

I have been seeing this girl I have known for a few weeks and I knew she has a bf but is unhappy with the relationship. We started getting intimate with each other and really want each other badly. Her bf treats her badly and I want her to break up with him for that reason and not for me. Until that happens I do not want to talk to her and suggested we do not talk until she deals with her situation and gets full closure. I am not interested in seeing someone that will be seeing her bf on the side. I do not think it is fair or right.





Even though it hurts, is it right what I did when I suggested that we do not talk until she is through with him? How long is a reasonable time to wait? We havent seen each other for a week now, and the last time we talked she told me she won't be able to control herself the next time we see each other and will be all over me.However, I do not think it is right until she gets through this on her own.What do you think?thank u so much for all your helpRelationship Advice, Please help, Thanks!?
This is a mature, reasoned, and logical response to your situation.Relationship Advice, Please help, Thanks!?
hello,





It depends a lot on how you feel about this and you have made your point quite clear. It sounds like you have given the girl the option to choose which seems completely fair. If her feelings for you are true she will do whatever it takes to be with you even though that may take a bit of time.





In order to have a healthy relationship you need that peace of mind that she is with you and that she not dating somebody else too; that's just not right.





Good luck!
I think that you made the right choice, Give it a month if you see that if in that month she hasn't done anything to change her situation then move on.
you're exactly right. exactly. i'm impressed actually, you're like the first smart post i've seen all day. cheating isn;t fair, justs tep away, if she doesn't like you enough to break up with her boyfriend then the relationship isn't going to work.





good luck!
you did the right thing. i'd say to give it about a month 1/2. anything more than that and i would think she is in deep stuff and cant get out.