Relationship advice please?

My partner and I have come to Plymouth for a holiday. My partner has family down here....I dont. we live In london. For the past year my boyfriend has been talking to a woman (aged 27 he's 21) on facebook......private messages nothing sexual really just things like ';i want to keep you warm at night and i'd travel 250miles to see your smile'; it happened when we first met (april 08) then again when we split for 3 months in march. he says nothing will ever happen and the woman herself has told me the same. the only problem is my boyfriend has said he wants to move to Plymouth. he wants me to come 2 but if i decide to go back and live in London (where my family is) then he will not be returning with me. (so basically move to plymouth and we stay together or go back to london and we split up) He says he loves me but isnt happy where we live.I love him too but considering im only 19 and will be out of my confort zone im abit unsure. If we move to Plymouth we will be staying with his cousin and he will get a job with his cousin.....only problem is the girl my boyfriend has be talking to works with his cousin.





the question i ask is should i move to Plymouth just so we can be together or stay where i am? does he really love me if hes making choose? I'm soo upset please help.Relationship advice please?
Go have an adventure past your comfort zone, You can always go back home again if it doesn't work out. Tell him that he is not to work with the other woman or see her. Although more often than not, when people meet in real life they discover the person isn't anything like they appeared to be on face book. Anyway it is a big step to the next level and you better talk it out to be sure he isn't planning on cheating on you if he gets you away from your family and friends.Relationship advice please?
If I were you I would stay in London. He sounds like trouble, and your only young. Stay with your family. If he was a true boyfriend he wouldnt break up with you either way, he'd keep you wherever you lived.





And break up with him before he does, that way you'll be happier once hes gone.
You'll always need your family, i think its unfair the situation he has put you in, things like a dramatic move need to be spoke about rather than quick decisions, i think you should stay with your family and find someone else better x
never in a million years


always stay with your family


if he loves he will follow you everywhere


its just not worth it


you are to young to go and do that


what if it doesnt work out what ae you going to do in plymouth all by yourself
For one thing your bf should not be flirting with another girl and saying things like that to her.What is the point in that .You should think about that before you make that decision.
The signs are right in front of you...you said it yourself that you will be uncomfortable with moving to Plymouth since you feel that you are only 19. I say they are other fish in the sea.
you should stay where you are.
Ummm...there isn't any way to put this politely... It sounds like you'd be moving to Plymouth to be your boyfriend's backup plan in case what he's seeking with this new girl doesn't work out. He is emotionally invested in this girl and that in itself is a form of cheating. You need to set him free... It's never a good idea to make someone a priority when they only view you as an option. God bless...
You are so young. Life is so short. Move on. If he is not dedicated to you now he may never be. Part as friends, maybe your paths will cross again some day when you are both different people and then the relationship could start again. If not, pull up your boot straps and go start a new life.
I don't know...that sounds a little...interesting


and what if he's just lieing to you...what if you go to Plymouth and he decides he likes this other girl more than you...and you break up...your stuck there


I'm not trying to be mean or anything...I'm just saying that it could happen and I don't know if I would trust his word...


If that were me...I think I would just stay where you're at and wouldn't risk it...and it's kind of wrong for him to make you choose like that...


I guess just go with your gut and think about what's best for YOU


hope this helps!