Relationship Advice: What should I do? (10pts for best answer, given asap)?

My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago after a 19month relationship. He said that ';he wasn't ready for a long-term relationship'; So i figured that we weren't going to get back together, so i decided to move on. Then on thursday i went to a pool party and he was there (We have the same group of friends) %26amp; I was in the pool playing chicken fights, being thrown around etc with other guys (2 friends ,one who likes me). My boyfriend got extremely jealous, the next day we went for a walk %26amp; he said ';He thought about giving us another try, but after what happened on Thursday he doesn't want to anymore, atleast not right now.'; He said I was acting different, but i told him, we weren't together so what was I did i do wrong? %26amp; he said he just sees me differently now, but wants to stay close friends. I sent him a text today saying that ';I'm going to fix my mistakes, i want this to work, hopefully you can re-think things and want this to work'; Another problem is, our friend the guy who likes meRelationship Advice: What should I do? (10pts for best answer, given asap)?
i have the feeling he said more to you than what you are sharing here, but based on what I have read let me see if I can help.


First of all, there was a reason why you broke up with your boyfriend. A month isn't very long. It takes a long time to heal and many times we think we want back in and it is merely the issue of trying to avoid the pain of getting our lives in order after we become single.


Think carefully about why he said that he was thinking about getting back together until he saw you with someone else. He didn't have to tell you that. He could have kept his mouth shut. The only thing that came out of is statement is that you are willing to keep the torch burning for him. He gave you empty hope.


As for the other friend, you are right to not want to jump back into anything. Maybe you could view your ex in the same category. If you two are truly meant to be together, it will work out without force or orchestration. That is how life generally works.


Good luck! And I pray for healing for you.Relationship Advice: What should I do? (10pts for best answer, given asap)?
well he does know that you were acting differently since u 2 werent together, he pobably would have done the same in his situation or yours.





but you really just need to get it across his head how much he means to you and that you dont want to be with anyone else but him. explain to him that it shouldnt matter how the other guy feels, even though he is ur friend, its about you two. just what you need to do is not explain to him, not show him, prove to him how much he really means to you and what it would do to you if he let you down like this again.
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