Relationship advice. Please.?

Here goes,


Me and this guy were best friends back in highschool ( we both had feelings for each other, but none of us were smart enough to reveal it).


Then he left the country, and I started dating someone( i'm still dating him, it's been 2 n half years).


However, i've ALWAYS kept in touch with my old best friend. N recently we talked about our past feelings for each other (I havent seen him in 3 years, but we keep in touchh, i call him all the time). I'm gona be seeing him this summer for the first time.


We were both SO excited to see each other after so long! but i feel like he keeps avoiding me.


He's sending VERY mixed signals. When i msg him, he RARELY replies, i send him online messages that he doesnt reply to n stuff like that. Yet when i call, n he picks up, he's SO happy to talk to me, and we have the best conversationsss! I duno wats happening..


is he keeping a distance cuz i'm in a relationship?


or has he changed in the past 3 years?


I duno wat to think.. and i cant talk to him about it, cuz i've done it a million times and he always says ( nothing;s wrong, i've just been busy) ukh!


I'm thinking of not txting, calling , or talking to him at all for the next month ( untill i go back n see him), then i'll just tell him ( hey, i'm here, wana meet up?)





wat do you guys thinkk?Relationship advice. Please.?
I think he is keeping a distance and people do change in time. Give him space and time to tell you what's on his mind.





P.S. If you txting, and sending other guy messages and so excited about seeing him maybe you need to think about the relationship you have now and why you excited about a other guy.Relationship advice. Please.?
He's staying distance because he is in a relationship. He probably does not want to tell you to see where his chance are with you. Take it for what it is, friends. I have a theory, unless a man has put a ring on my finger and we are in front of the preacher. Everything they say and do is mostly bullcrap.
I wld just wait till you see him. maybe he has changed and if you guys get together and hang out you will know if he has.





and maybe he jst duznt have feelings but duznt want to be mean :( guys do that.





or it cld be that you are in a relationship and he duznt want to get involved or duznt think that u want to get involved
what is your relationship with your bf now now do you want to hurt him is the question. remain as his friend as before and until you know the true person he is either made for you or just being lustfull.
I think its becus youre in a relationship with someone and he doesnt want to be all over you. you should text him so you guys can meet up and when you do maybe thats when you麓ll know if maybe he still likes you.
I think you must have ignored him in the Past that's Why he's ignoring you Now. Look in your past history and See anything you have done wrong.
maybe he is avoiding yu maybe he doesnt like yu but in the other hand


maybe he does and really wants to be away cuz of yur boyfriend


maybe his trynna stop liking yu cuz yu in a relation
Is finding out worth the relationship that you've been in for the past 2 years? Somethings are better left unknown.
I think u should ask him if he has a gf, cuz if she's really controlling, then he might need to b careful! Act like old times!
I know you are in a relationship but you guys need to sleep together and get it out of your system.
I don't think, I know. He finds you interesting, but is not interested.





Move on.
You suck as a person.
well u never know he might be busy. but i think u should let him email u or w.e first.
i get the impression that you are more into it than he is, he might wanna get together when he's in the area and if you guys have myspace or facebook maybe talk a tiny bit but if it's been that long i don't see why you're putting soo much effort into it, seems like you aren't satisfied with who you are with, if that's the case, you should be more concerned with ending your current relationship before moving on. he sounds like a typical guy, he probably meets women now and you're just the good friend who he might wanna meet up with later. he's not going to drop his current plans for you but if you talk to him of course he's going to be nice. take things slower is my guess
Wow. Well your boyfriend, i'm guessing does not know about this whole ordeal. I would tell your boyfriend that you are going to see him and it sounds like you are keeping this all from your boyfriend or atleast the part about having feelings for this other guy, and still thinking you may still have feelings. Some guys like to talk on the phone more than through emails and online messaging. It just has to do with your personality, so do not worry about that issue. When you go see this other guy and you guys talk, and you seem to still have chemistry i would either leave your boyfriend or drop the whole ordeal with the other guy. You will get into much drama if you keep them both in your life if you have feelings for both of them. Do not ignore the other guy because there really is no point in doing so. I hope everything works out ok for you. Good luck.
he might be keeping his distance especially if its online because people can see that and maybe he doesn't want your boyfriend getting the wrong idea that you're cheating or something. I think he still likes you but the dynamics obviously have changed in that your in a relationship. He probably also wants to talk to you since thats much more personal than just typing or maybe he's just bad at responding online like I am. Don't just ignore him, but maybe don't call so much or if anything try not to be the one who initiates contact to see if he is really paying attention.
I think you should hang on to him. Trust him maybe he really was veri busi you said that he sound happy wen u talk to him on the phone so he is in my oppinion !! I would wait till the next few days when u meet him u can judge weather he has changed or not !!!