Relationship Advice?

I just recently got out of a 1 year relationship with someone I really did love. We were happy, living in our own place and then all of a sudden He dumped me right out of the blue, moved back in with his parents and I moved back in with mine.Told me he didn't want me to call him or talk to him anymore. So, I moved on. I was tired of being treated like this. It had been a while since we broke up. I met someone *new*, someone sweet that I really started to like, Now all of a sudden my ex has been talking to me again lately, and he seems like he might want to be with me again, and OF COURSE, I still love him... but yesterday *the new guy* told me that he has been thinking about things and putting everything into perspective and he said he wants to be with me. I dont know what to do. Someone please give me some advice. I need reallllllly good advice. Please help.Relationship Advice?
Choose one.





Really. But somehow there are multiple choices.


a. Your Ex


b. The new guy


c. None of the above.





I mean, since you're not attached with any of them, why rush?





You like your ex but you still got lotsa stuffs to settle. Unless you can forgive and resolve whatever happen in the past.


You like the new guy as well.


You also not sure which of the two can give you happiness ever after. May even be someone else out of the blue appear and it's actually your true love.





So if I were you, I'll choose c. None of the above. I'll just wait for a year or two before making decision. If they can't wait, their loss. True love will not fade in time.Relationship Advice?
I think if you really still love your ex then you need to have a long conversation with him about why he dumped you in the way he did. He better give you some really good answers on why he ended your previous relationship in such a harsh way AND he needs to prove that he sincerely wants you back. If your ex gives you anything less than an amazing explanation for why he made the choices he did then I think you should stick with your current boyfriend because it sounds like he is committed. If your ex explains everything, it makes sense, you really believe in everything he says (as in he passes his little test with an A++ and with no doubts in ur mind) then I think you can't deny true love and you should go back to him.
Well no one can really tell you what to do in a situation like this. But, I would reccomend that you do some serious thinking before you decide what to do. Take into consideration that the guy who recently broke up with you and now wants you back is unreliable - he could do the exact same thing again in a couple weeks. But, at the same time, the new guy you probably don't know as well since you haven't lived with him for a year, so he could be just as unpredictable for all you know. I couldn't really ever see myself ever moving back in with a guy who dumped me at the drop of a hat and then wants be back though. Hard to say without knowing more details I guess.


Go with your gut and you'll pick the right thing to do :-)
You don't want to give ur ex the impression that he can get you whenever he wants. i know that you still love him and all that but how do you feel about the new guy? Instead of wasting the new guy's time while you are still thinking of ur ex, you need to heal yoirself first before you can move on with someone new or resolve your old flame or just be alone (ain't nothin wrong with that). If you decide to go back to ur ex, make sure that he worked his *** off to get you back because you desrve nothing less.