Relationship Advice?

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My g/f and I have been dating for about 2 1/2 years and today she called it quits. This was not the first time, in fact she did it last wee k and I took her back. Now, I have gave her a promise ring, been told by numerous people that I treat her so well (including her parents). She is wanting me to take her back for a second time and stated that, ';I never tell her anything anymore';. I have a way of telling people something without actually telling them... If that make since. I figured that after 2 1/2 years that she could make since of it all but that does not seem to be so. Her parents have told her that she will never find anyone else like me, but yet she always treats me like I am dirt and always wants more. I am in medical school, so I am always busy, but she expects me to drop everything at the drop of a hat and do what she wants. I WILL NOT be treated that way. Am I doing something wrong, or am I missing something? Every adult says noRelationship Advice?
you sound like you have lot going for yourself so dont settle for less. I know you have lot of time involved but sometimes things just dont work out. Tell her you need some time to focus on you and she can be there as your friend for now or nothing. I personally would tell her if she is so unsure about you guys and keeps on breaking up then maybe you guys should go ur separate ways and in time if it was meant to be you ll find ur way back to each other. She should be so thrilled that your dedicated about medical school and if she expects you to drop everything she is to needy and not very compassionate, in my mind i would be like he is bettering him self and that will make for a great future and once your a doctor your gonna be working crazy hours so keep that in mind. oh ya and get the ring back! LOL.


she needs to learn how to express her self better not be so childish. A child behaves like that when they dont get what they want. the proper way to go about it is say hey maybe when you have some free time we could go to the park and take a walk and talk its been a while since we have done something like that.Relationship Advice?
If you really love her then you should take her back... but if your kind of sketchy about it than it is not worth it it seems to me you are doing everything right she seems to demanding.
I can see both sides here. The whole ';telling people something without actually telling them'; thing means that you assume that others understand you without you communicating clearly. That probably gets really frustrating and if you aren't willing to change to facilitate communication, then you need to find someone who can make ';since'; (sic) of you inherently.





The fact that she keeps dumping you and expecting you to take her back is also a pile of crap, as well as her expecting you to be at her beck and call. She's had her chances, and she needs to move on now.
Its not your fault that you want to be something in life and is in medical school you are a great guy from what i read and you are right you shouldnt be treated like that alot of girls would love to have a guy like you because i know i would so i feel you should leave her FINALLY but its your call.....
you are doing something wrong: caring. if she acts stupid like that, forget her. you're in med. school and im sure that gives you more important things to deal with. you dont need her. and im not even some angry relationship hating adult. im 16 and i've alrteady learned that the hard way.
Your girlfriend sounds bored and in need of her own personal life. Drama gives her a little zest, so she breaks up with you to cause that. Maybe she needs to go to school to find a way to spice up her life. You on the other hand should understand that women sometimes need validation in a relationship. Instead of trying to show her how you feel, tell her, hell write a note and leave it where she will find it. This will help minimize her need for attention and drama, consequently helping your relationship. And stop being such a pushover, stand up for yourself, women hate men they can push around, it makes you look weak!
I think you can't change her so don't try. You don't need the ups and downs and you certainly deserve someone who treats you as well as you treat them. If she can't appreciate you now....she never will.
What are you promising? Something she wants? OR Something based on the list above that ';other people say';?????
I think she doesnt value you the way you value her which is something that cant make a good relationship. Why not give her a note or talk to her exoplaining how you love her, but you feel like this... and explain about the long hours and busy schedule. If she cant accept this, let her do what she wants and soon she will realise she never should have left you. If she doesnt, she is not worth it.